Quote: Yes, I admit to being wrong in slowing down.... for that I apologize, but I stand by how I pulled out to pass (and continued to pass, in spite of "slowing" down).
Isn't there a contradiction there? How can you both apologize for AND stand by your actions?
You behaved improperly by slowing down and trying to teach the rider a lesson. Just own that. The rider was wrong for his damage to your property, but understand that it was your action that brought that about. What more do you need to know? I hope you have become aware of a perspective beyond the very self-centric one that you began this thread with.
You misunderstand by my "standing by how I pulled out".... as far as I was concerned, I was clear to pull out, seeing as the biker was a long way back, so it was safe to go into the left lane to pass. It is THAT action I stand by. I do "own" the slowing down, and I do believe I apologized for that. The fact, which was not apparent at the time of my going left, was that the biker was going like a bat out of somewhere. That was quickly evident by how soon he was on my tail.
I'm sure most drivers, bike and car, have wondered "Where in the heck did they come from" or "how did they get here so fast".... it was one of those moments.