I loaned my brother a 1400 watt Honda when he was having problems with power outage basement flooding. Sump pumps need power. The 1400 watts would run the sump pump and a light bulb.Reality check, a 100 amp service is 24,000 KVA IF the full 100 amps are being drawn (full 100, not slash). For KW, well we need to know the power factor (ELI the ICE man.... for the EEs in the crowd) but for most large home loads I expect it to be close to 1 and therefore close to KVA.
BUT.... what about a 200 amp service.... first, are you ever going to draw 200 amps, very unlikely.... Next, are you going balls to the walls running everything full blast during a power outage or can you be an adult and maybe wait a couple of days.... to run the welder, to do laundry, maybe turn the AC up a couple of degrees or off, wait to run the stove full blast, wait out the EV charge or do it overnight.... Resistive electric heat is a bit of a wrinkle in an ice storm. Next is this an emergency only thing with multiple days on a regular basis or is it a few hours here or there with very rare multi-day???
Of course the guys selling generators say you need to go big.... Just like car dealerships with rust proofing, all the up sells, etc.. Some of the numbers quoted here are silly from an EE perspective. There will be a sweet spot in regards to size vs install costs but a sober second thought may be a good idea. You also need to determine if your NG service can handle the extra load to power the genny plus all the gas appliances.... If the genny guy can't figure out electrical load, how can they figure out the NG!
He replaced it with around 5 KW, electric start and transfer switch. He explained that if a tree branch came down in a storm and punched a hole in the roof he could saw up a sheet of plywood, power nail it in place with his air nailer and reshingle the roof.
BS. He couldn't wait for an outage so he could light up his place like a Christmas tree and sip a latte in the garage with the door open so the neighbours could see him play king of the castle.