This might be a huge contributor. I understand what these guys feel...many of my frds and I feel the same way. I don't think it's truly depression either because anytime we have vacation, the mood perks right up lol
See I look at it differently. There's a whole younger generation that is 'special' and is told to 'follow their dreams' and everything that isn't along this path is bad.
Do I love my job? Nope
Do I like my job? Meh
Is it my dream job? Sweet baby Jesus no
Do I tolerate it? Yup
Is it secure? Sure...as secure as any other industry
Is it stable? Same as above
Does it provide me with enough to live, put a roof over my head, have a vacation, and eat well? Sure does. Not as much as we want (always more) but we're not starving.
Sometimes the problem isn't the job, it's YOU (obviously not YOU YOU because you're special) and people have these stupidly high expectations that they DESERVE a super job, and a fun/enjoyable/proper job is OWED to them.
It's not. Life's not about you. You are not special (except to maybe your parents and SO)....that's it.
So as
@GreyGhost says...if the job is so depressing that it's affecting you, there are options. Not for everyone obviously, but there are always options.
- retraining
- restarting
- re-evaluating yourself and your expectations
But it's just so much easier to ***** and complain.
I finished school as an engineering grad with a B.Eng. I have literally done a zero amount of actual engineering (hence lack of P.Eng.). I enjoy my job/career/industry that when I see an opportunity I go for it. It's typically worked out well since 2007. But if I am really reasonable...I leave and go elsewhere.
Best part is, I didn't know this industry existed...like not in a million years would I have thought I'd be doing this. But an opportunity came, I took it, and am well enough known that if this doesn't work out...I can make a few calls and have a job within a few weeks in another part of the industry.