How about using their name when referring to them? It might be worth a try.
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lol +1
I find people rarely use names though...unless you're in the sack
Just don't use the wrong one!So true. I already forgot the name of the girl I'm supposed to go out with. I had to back to my original text where I said hi (name).
Arguing with my cousin who set us up. I'm really busy this week and haven't messaged her yesterday. Probably no time to keep a convo today. She insists I should message her and get things rolling. I don't really have time today. I miss friends with benefits so much easier.
Arguing with my cousin who set us up. I'm really busy this week and haven't messaged her yesterday. Probably no time to keep a convo today. She insists I should message her and get things rolling. I don't really have time today. I miss friends with benefits so much easier.
油井緋色;2272901 said:lol +1
I find people rarely use names though...unless you're in the sack
Worst part is when you forget who tells you what if you're seeing 2-3 ppl a weekend lol
The girl I'm seeing right now gets off close to when I need to sleep (I start very early). We exchange maybe 5 messages a day at most, sometimes none at all (probably today). I'm finding I prefer it this way. So much is lost through text messages because you can't hear the person's tone of voice or see their body language.
Use the phone/texts as a tool to setup a date/encounter and that's it. It'll avoid any weird hassle if you stop texting her one day because you're out riding. She won't be able to say "you normally message me a lot, what's keeping you busy today?!"
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Yep, but a lot of women prefer to talk a lot with the person they are seeing. I just find you have less to talk about when you meet up. I'm not an interesting person that has a lot of stuff happening all the time. A lot of the things I do nowadays are related to specific data that no one will find interesting or can understand.
油井緋色;2272905 said:
We're all interesting. We ****ing ride motorcycles. We have enough near death stories and hooligan fantasies that have been made reality to make a movie out of them. However, there's something I've learned from interacting with people who can keep a conversation going forever: they focus on you. If you're actually interested in the girl, get to know what makes her happy, what scares her, how how regular day goes, if she has any crazy exs, what's her out look on life, etc. etc.
She'll eventually flip the questions around to you, then keep things concise and brief (NOT BORING THOUGH!! cliff hangers are best) so it keeps her curiosity up.
Mind you, the above is ice breaker first date stuff which I have hammered down. The second date and beyond is where the rules and dynamics change immensely and I haven't figured out a flow chart for lol but the objective remains the same: both of you need to be having fun.
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when I write or text I leave the k out
it's my thing
@ Hoe, you are correct but remember this is my thing and as such the way I write it also reminds them of the difference of how I mean it.
it's much like when some ppl say you ***** or you biAtch...the biAtch is humorous slang.
it's part of my style.
Some guys can call women sweetheart and women can feel they are being sincere by their tone and the consistency and some guys can say listen sweetheart and it comes across as condescending.
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most people lie anyways because apparently they "look" younger than they actually are.
Is it me or a lot of tinder girls are just strippers or escorts? I swear half the ones I swiped are from those categories. Chatted with a stripper for half an hour. She really wanted to come over. She got offended when I said being a stripper to justify paying for school is just a pathetic excuse. "I'm only doing this to pay for school" is complete BS. She kept going on about how guys treat her like object. Don't care! You chose to be a stripper. If you want to pay for school then work like all the other girls! She got really upset when I said strippers are "just dead inside" and sent her this vid. Apparently strippers can't take jokes...
[video=youtube;FWL4YH819jY]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWL4YH819jY[/video]
[video=youtube;FWL4YH819jY]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWL4YH819jY[/video]
You're doing it wrong
Yeah, I figured as much. Deleted tinder. It's tax time right now so no time...
Well, I'm in a pickle now. I just got back from a date and it went very well. The problem is that I went on a (second) date Monday with a different girl and well...........I like that one too. Decisions decisions. Did I mention that BOTH of them have a birthday in the next 7 days?
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You know what that means... double BJ!
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