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Roasted said:
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Also, I have my own style. I'm not a fitness guy, biker guy, artsy guy, music guy, history guy, or whatever stereotypical categories you can come up with.......I think for myself and refuse to fit myself into a box......I'm all those things.......so I'm not gonna go out and say "my style fits neatly into this stereotype" so I'm going to look for a girl like that. I like to think that people are more complex then that and you cannot judge people and understand their personality from a 5 minute conversation or (especially) a bunch of pics on an online profile. That's the whole point of dating. Also, just cause I'm open to something more serious doesn't mean I can't have some fun with women that fit the "great right now" category but don't necessarily meet the bar for "great forever" (or at least a long time) because oh no, I'm in "GF" seeking mode. I've never gotten into a relationship because I was in "I want a GF" mode......I've gotten into relationships because I've met women that I saw myself dating.
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So, how is that working out for you?
 
Roasted said:
Great actually, I can look in the mirror and not want to kill myself because I'm pretending to be someone I'm not. Try it some time.
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Which one of us is on tinder?
 
Roasted said:
Might want to re-read -D-'s post. I believe it was slightly longer....
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Dude, don't try to deflect to me. He saw my post and understood what I was trying to convey.
It's your response Sonny engaged you with.

See, now if this is how you are with women, you are looking weak.:cool:
 
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Roasted said:
I was not talking about a specific girl. I'm talking about 90% of the women I go on dates with and yeah, those dates rarely go past date #1. I don't know where you got the 3 month thing from, I've never dated a woman more then a month where our personalities weren't at least a bit compatible.

Also, I have my own style. I'm not a fitness guy, biker guy, artsy guy, music guy, history guy, or whatever stereotypical categories you can come up with.......I think for myself and refuse to fit myself into a box......I'm all those things.......so I'm not gonna go out and say "my style fits neatly into this stereotype" so I'm going to look for a girl like that. I like to think that people are more complex then that and you cannot judge people and understand their personality from a 5 minute conversation or (especially) a bunch of pics on an online profile. That's the whole point of dating. Also, just cause I'm open to something more serious doesn't mean I can't have some fun with women that fit the "great right now" category but don't necessarily meet the bar for "great forever" (or at least a long time) because oh no, I'm in "GF" seeking mode. I've never gotten into a relationship because I was in "I want a GF" mode......I've gotten into relationships because I've met women that I saw myself dating.
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That answer tells people that you do NOT have a style or you are being delusional.
Did you notice I used the word framework? If you can not convey verbally and non-verbally who you are or what you stand for then you appear lost to women.
Your answer is on par with the universe is a manifestation of etc... (Kellen, add that line here, I forgot what it was)

Oh course we fit in a box. You would be foolish to think you did not.
You have a checklist for women and they have one for men e.g. tall, nice smile, muscles, money, charming, smart, fatherly etc...

Dude, based on your replies I see how women size you up quickly.
You are supposed to be the hunter, however I am getting the sense that you are their prey.
Just sayin' no malice intended towards you.:cool:
 
Roasted said:
Anyways, I'm off to hit some weights. You guys have fun doing whatever it is you're doing.
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Please don't engage in conversation about classical violin music or different types of cheese at the gym. Some dude might pick you up which will prove Sonny's point.
 
Roasted said:
I'm on Tinder......what's your point? Oh wait, you're one of those guys that thinks that not using a dating app somehow makes you a better person. Damn man, I guess I got told.
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Yeah who cares I think the seeking advice on a motorcycle forum is gonna get you flamed...live your life and pussy will happen. That's the rule
 
Roasted said:
Anyways, I'm off to hit some weights. You guys have fun doing whatever it is you're doing.
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Throw in some jiu jitsu you might then actually learn something and not just lift things up and put them down .. And meet a hot chick too.

Google jiu jitsu girls
 
sonnythebull said:
Yeah who cares I think the seeking advice on a motorcycle forum is gonna get you flamed...live your life and pussy will happen. That's the rule
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Oh Sonny you're so manly, when I grow up I want to be just like you
 
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Please don't engage in conversation about classical violin music or different types of cheese at the gym. Some dude might pick you up which will prove Sonny's point.
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Geez that was rather dry lol

But I agree with you. Understanding yourself, what makes you tick, and what makes you happy is the only way you can figure out what kind of girl you want.
 
Last page has been hilarious. thanks for the laugh.

Maybe some of you aren't as hot $h1t as you think and need to stay in your attractiveness lane. LOL


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