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The single rant.
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Rub n tugs...
Type17
Well-known member
Access to Women:
OP... do you have friends that are women? Go out with them, surround yourself with women... got **** all to do on a Thursday night? Call up one of your woman friends and take her out, just for fun, don't spend your time relentlessly trying to get it in, spend it trying to have a good time and showing her a good time. Women talk brah. It'll open doors to more women, friends of hers, and so on.
Transportation:
How are you gonna take a woman out on a bike man? You need a car. I know lots of women love bikes and having a bike probably will at some point get you laid, but you need a car for when it's cold, or snowing, or raining, and so on. Plus, it makes you look like you have your head on your shoulders but you like to have your fun.
You:
From your description, you seem like you're quite a bit better off financially than most guys. You seem a little caught up on the fact that you're not getting any at the moment and you're concerned with what your parents/church "friends" think you should be doing to the point that you have laid out a set of parameters to live by. That's pretty beta but you can work on that.
Bro you're in your early 30s, are making enough to support yourself and a hobby. If your church friends are judging you by your car or possessions, tell them they're ****** people and worse Christians. If your parents are judging, tell them you don't need their opinions on what you drive or who you should be with, you're on your own man, you don't have to please your mom and dad. Do what makes YOU happy. I can almost guarantee your parents did that or at least wish they did that.
That being said... you gotta look at yourself as a catch. If YOU think you're a turd and you take every opportunity to point that out, it'll be a very short time before people start taking your word for it. A little more self confidence and control of your own life will work wonders. Go on dates with the mentality that you're the real prize here. Don't start asking about her blood type or interviewing her for a job, but make her work a little for the attention, don't sit there trying to sell off your wang like some sort of used car/wang salesman.
Lastly:
Man, take a few days or a week or however long you need. Go do some fun stuff, take a martial arts class, play tennis, go to a poetry night, find some sort of hobby and try something new. It'll make you a more interesting person and it'll make you learn a bit about yourself and what you like to do. Once you know yourself a little bit and know what you want to get out of life, you'll have a much better idea of the kind of people you should be spending your time with... And don't focus just on Asians and Christians. Seriously, dip into some international cuisine and go have fun.
PS: women like fun. go have fun.
OP... do you have friends that are women? Go out with them, surround yourself with women... got **** all to do on a Thursday night? Call up one of your woman friends and take her out, just for fun, don't spend your time relentlessly trying to get it in, spend it trying to have a good time and showing her a good time. Women talk brah. It'll open doors to more women, friends of hers, and so on.
Transportation:
How are you gonna take a woman out on a bike man? You need a car. I know lots of women love bikes and having a bike probably will at some point get you laid, but you need a car for when it's cold, or snowing, or raining, and so on. Plus, it makes you look like you have your head on your shoulders but you like to have your fun.
You:
From your description, you seem like you're quite a bit better off financially than most guys. You seem a little caught up on the fact that you're not getting any at the moment and you're concerned with what your parents/church "friends" think you should be doing to the point that you have laid out a set of parameters to live by. That's pretty beta but you can work on that.
Bro you're in your early 30s, are making enough to support yourself and a hobby. If your church friends are judging you by your car or possessions, tell them they're ****** people and worse Christians. If your parents are judging, tell them you don't need their opinions on what you drive or who you should be with, you're on your own man, you don't have to please your mom and dad. Do what makes YOU happy. I can almost guarantee your parents did that or at least wish they did that.
That being said... you gotta look at yourself as a catch. If YOU think you're a turd and you take every opportunity to point that out, it'll be a very short time before people start taking your word for it. A little more self confidence and control of your own life will work wonders. Go on dates with the mentality that you're the real prize here. Don't start asking about her blood type or interviewing her for a job, but make her work a little for the attention, don't sit there trying to sell off your wang like some sort of used car/wang salesman.
Lastly:
Man, take a few days or a week or however long you need. Go do some fun stuff, take a martial arts class, play tennis, go to a poetry night, find some sort of hobby and try something new. It'll make you a more interesting person and it'll make you learn a bit about yourself and what you like to do. Once you know yourself a little bit and know what you want to get out of life, you'll have a much better idea of the kind of people you should be spending your time with... And don't focus just on Asians and Christians. Seriously, dip into some international cuisine and go have fun.
PS: women like fun. go have fun.
The fact that you feel that you NEED someone else to complete you is wrong. You generally meet someone else when you are out doing your own thing and they come into your life unexpectedly. Looking for love can be a complete waste of time. Also, by the sounds of it you should be focusing on yourself career wise if you want to be a materialistic person. My best friend made decent money, had a lot going for him and just said **** it, moved down to Costa Rica. Bought a small hut right by the ocean, and now just gives physiotherapy to travelers and helps in a local bar to get by. Absolutely loves the down to earth lifestyle in a beautiful landscape.
Do what YOU want to do, don't let a culture or a friend tell you what you need.
Do what YOU want to do, don't let a culture or a friend tell you what you need.
^^. This. Get your own house in order before you go buying furniture.
Tornique
Well-known member
Great advice here. +1
And always check out the feet and the Asz and the mom before banging. If she got hammer toe ,asz cheese and a troll for a mother better to know before....unless you like that stuff or aren't shallow like me
Jinster81
Banned
Folks. Thanks for the encourgement and the advice.
One thing I didn't mention is that I enjoy the single life. Its not like I'm miserable in any way.
I got into MCs in 09 and another GTAMer brought me here at the same time.
Four years, there were a few issues and I shared them in the romper room.
Happy to say even with the ups and downs in my life situation, there was always forward progress.
Just wanted someone to share that progress with (along with that person's)
Anyhow, the info I got from this thread is awesome. Thanks again and...
If you guys don't mind...
/endthread :grin:
One thing I didn't mention is that I enjoy the single life. Its not like I'm miserable in any way.
I got into MCs in 09 and another GTAMer brought me here at the same time.
Four years, there were a few issues and I shared them in the romper room.
Happy to say even with the ups and downs in my life situation, there was always forward progress.
Just wanted someone to share that progress with (along with that person's)
Anyhow, the info I got from this thread is awesome. Thanks again and...
If you guys don't mind...
/endthread :grin:
-D-
Banned
You make no sense. See bold.
You are doomed. You make yourself sound bipolar or something of that nature.
The contradiction is obvious.
Which statement is true? "people are all the same" or "people are all different". Both statements are true. The contradiction is obvious.
The days drag on. But the week flies by. How can one person experience that simultaneously?
Is Jinster bipolar? Is Jinster doomed? I don't know but the whole "since this is the most non-judgmental forum that I know" fiasco is deeply concerning.
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I'm betting it was on hookers and blow!
I hope you mean that. 'Cause if it's not true, you're not helping yourself out by denying it.
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