Should men enter into marriage? Is it in their interest?

Should men get married today?

  • Yes

    Votes: 4 10.5%
  • No

    Votes: 23 60.5%
  • not sure

    Votes: 4 10.5%
  • maybe if the laws were applied equally

    Votes: 7 18.4%

  • Total voters
    38
here's an anecdote for you boys, friend of mine is a pilot, around 10 years ago was flying a C130
in Afghanistan for 12 month deployment, had been married to great gal for around 15 years,

he got home and she asked for a heart to heart chat, asked him for some space and suggested he move
out for a trial separation, he agreed, packed a bag and went to stay at a friends place to give his wife some time,
of course she had her legal strategy all lined up, filed in family court for abandonment,
was awarded full custody of the 3 kids and the house, the cop she had been shagging immediately moved in and there was not a damn thing he could do about any of it

the insanity is still going on 10 years later, though he pays the child support per the 2011 tables,
and she was awarded 70% of his income for the next 15 years, it's still not enough for her,
latest tactic was she sent a video of their daughter holding a running chain saw over his antique
desk, given to him by his grandmother,

the teenage boys were old enough to not get caught up in the insanity,
but the daughter being younger is fully infected and participates with Mom in the campaign
to completely ruin her Dad

all this from a woman that while I knew her appeared to be a fantastic mother and wife

How can that cop live with himself? And she's capable of doing that to him as well. Obviously.
 
How can that cop live with himself? And she's capable of doing that to him as well. Obviously.

just my opinion, because I don't know the guy, but they aren't known for being bright, and she is very good looking
 
There is no brotherhood. He gets laid and free room and board.

If he's smart, he keeps a different mailing address and when it's his turn, he gets away scott free.
 
just my opinion, because I don't know the guy, but they aren't known for being bright, and she is very good looking

I was going to opine about her sexual marketplace value. You thought highly of her before this happened, I wonder how much of that was driven by curb appeal? I know I used to associate good looks with wholesomeness. That ship has sailed as well. I think, if you scratch below the surface, her looks have let her get away with a lot since being a cute little daddys girl princess. There's always the next guy willing to step in. Until she hits the wall of course.
 
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here's an anecdote for you boys, friend of mine is a pilot, around 10 years ago was flying a C130
in Afghanistan for 12 month deployment, had been married to great gal for around 15 years,

he got home and she asked for a heart to heart chat, asked him for some space and suggested he move
out for a trial separation, he agreed, packed a bag and went to stay at a friends place to give his wife some time,
of course she had her legal strategy all lined up, filed in family court for abandonment,
was awarded full custody of the 3 kids and the house, the cop she had been shagging immediately moved in and there was not a damn thing he could do about any of it

the insanity is still going on 10 years later, though he pays the child support per the 2011 tables,
and she was awarded 70% of his income for the next 15 years, it's still not enough for her,
latest tactic was she sent a video of their daughter holding a running chain saw over his antique
desk, given to him by his grandmother,

the teenage boys were old enough to not get caught up in the insanity,
but the daughter being younger is fully infected and participates with Mom in the campaign
to completely ruin her Dad

all this from a woman that while I knew her appeared to be a fantastic mother and wife

That's how it works. When it comes to marriage (that place men willingly go to be destroyed) women will tell you exactly what you want to hear - up and until the lies no longer serve their purposes. The truth never comes out until they're no longer advantaged. It could be a richer guy comes along. It could be because they're bored. It could be because they're simply no longer happy. Women are very clever that way. They know they own you from "I do". They know the state is on their side. Then - they lower the boom and it's all over but the suicide. By the time you figure it all out - it's too late. You're trapped. You've been had. The system is designed to support her and destroy you - which is why it's so common for lawyers to tell their male clients, "Just give her what she wants. You can't win. You'll just end up paying me and paying her." It's all designed to work this way because married people spend far more money than singles, because lawyers and judges make a ton of money off divorce, because the welfare state needs their money and because the state gets new wage and tax slaves. It's all a gigantic scam designed to force wealth and power from men to women and the state (powerful 'alpha' men with rich wives) - and the lower class menz have zero idea until it's too late to save themselves. Hilarious. And it's so obvious. Tis why in Rome they developed the single man tax - something every man is cluelessly paying today - with no knowledge whatsoever. It's a wonder of modern social engineering.
 
I was going to opine about her sexual marketplace value. You thought highly of her before this happened, I wonder how much of that was driven by curb appeal? I know I used to associate good looks with wholesomeness. That ship has sailed as well. I think, if you scratch below the surface, her looks have let her get away with a lot since being a cute little daddys girl princess. There's always the next guy willing to step in. Until she hits the wall of course.

there is no doubt her looks affected my opinion of her

and while a forces pilot makes good dough, around 150 at the time for a captain but I could be wrong on that

when a gal realizes usually around age 40 that she gave up exclusive nookie for that small an amount she gets resentful

they get talking with the biotch network, take a consultation with lawyer who enables them and it starts
 
Oh man am I curious how my buddy will fare in the next little while....single....early 40s....met a girl his age here on a visitor visa from an Eastern bloc country...married within a month...love of his life....I'll keep notes. I'm happy for him and think it'll go well...but you guys got me scared...

Mind you the other one that did that 5 years ago is stupidly happy and has a great life (from all accounts) with his mate from a diff Eastern bloc country.
 
Not sure where you two are going with this but let me ask you this...you walk into the shop and they tell you that $15k brand new (0km) motorcycle you are about to buy will break down in 1 year and you have to keep fixing it and repay Honda for the next 3 years because you caused it to break.
Sorry -D-, I should have elaborated. What I meant is nobody would purchase a vehicle that has a 50% failure rate, where as we wouldn't think twice about marriage even though the chances of failure are even higher. But that , I think is due to a lack of research into the subject. In general, we're more inclined to research the reliability of a vehicle you're considering purchasing than doing the same due diligence prior to marriage. All I know is if somebody gave me my car analogy before I got married, I wouldn't have done it.
 
How many people rush into marriage at a young age? Or before living with their partner? Or after only dating 6 months or a year?

The stats are gloomy because people are idiots. If you go into it informed and prepared it's foolish to think your chances are only 50/50. That's just dumb.
 
caveat to my postings, while men don't see this coming, we do much for the most part to contribute to it,
while women are seeing their lives slip by and start feeling restless, the realization that we are walking wallets
causes men to harden in life, which is the last thing a wife needs at that point in her life when she's feeling insecure

edit: and the 50% failure rate is a BS stat, that was dreamed up years ago when someone looked at average number of divorces in a year and saw that it was roughly 50% of average number of marriages in a year, the real percentage is far lower
 
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caveat to my postings, while men don't see this coming, we do much for the most part to contribute to it,
while women are seeing their lives slip by and start feeling restless, the realization that we are walking wallets
causes men to harden in life, which is the last thing a wife needs at that point in her life when she's feeling insecure

Ahhhhh....that point in which women realize their sexual power over men slip, slip, slipping away...at which point they must offer something other than their evolutionary power over men - the exploitation of men's natural addiction - fine young poody. Yes. Yes. They must then learn to think like men and provide more than looks and youth - whilst younger women begin catching the eye of what might no longer be 'theirs'. Mmmmm. But what if women could simply appropriate all that men built through the power of the state? What then? Women might be able to do the same as men and discard their old husbands in favor of younger men. What if women can 'flip the script' - use the power of the state to financially enslave men whilst re-living their adolescence - and still have men fight the wars and do the dirty, dangerous, life-threatening, life shortening jobs through mass importation of cheap male slave labor or outsourcing of traditional male labor to slave male labor markets overseas? Hmmm. Yes. I can see how this might work. I can see how this would not only please 'alpha males', but also women who really only serve those 'alpha males'. How does one pronounce Trudeau anyways?
 
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How many people rush into marriage at a young age? Or before living with their partner? Or after only dating 6 months or a year?

The stats are gloomy because people are idiots. If you go into it informed and prepared it's foolish to think your chances are only 50/50. That's just dumb.

We're here to inform:cool: I'm not that bright but lucky. It's only thru the vast pool that is the internet can I nail down the hunches I've had all my adult life. It's either real or a huge con job.

I'm all for equality and freedom but what has it wrought? From my high perch I do think the majority of people are doing love, relationships and life wrong. That's how it appears anyway. I was rifling thru some womens magazines at the dealership today. It's ALL garbage imho. Garbage in garbage out. I shudder to think women take these lifestyle cues to heart. How does a normal man compete with that? Same way a normal woman competes with the porn industry I reckon. We have a long way to go.
 
We're here to inform:cool: I'm not that bright but lucky. It's only thru the vast pool that is the internet can I nail down the hunches I've had all my adult life. It's either real or a huge con job.

I'm all for equality and freedom but what has it wrought? From my high perch I do think the majority of people are doing love, relationships and life wrong. That's how it appears anyway. I was rifling thru some womens magazines at the dealership today. It's ALL garbage imho. Garbage in garbage out. I shudder to think women take these lifestyle cues to heart. How does a normal man compete with that? Same way a normal woman competes with the porn industry I reckon. We have a long way to go.

I'm sort of curious when was the last time you had a relationship with an actual woman. Your previous posts lead me to believe you're a 50+ year old bachelor.
 
I'm sort of curious when was the last time you had a relationship with an actual woman. Your previous posts lead me to believe you're a 50+ year old bachelor.

Does a daily review of pornhub reflect a relationship?
 
I'm sort of curious when was the last time you had a relationship with an actual woman. Your previous posts lead me to believe you're a 50+ year old bachelor.

An actual woman? It's been a long time, let's just say that. By choice. I could have some real winners living here. Maybe it says something about me and I'll take my lumps if it does. Every woman I've dated after age 30 or so brought nothing to the table except her pussy and a list of wants and desires. It's not so obvious upon a casual perusal but when you really look at it that's what comes down to. Also women can't make me laugh. That's probably the biggy.
 
An actual woman? It's been a long time, let's just say that. By choice. I could have some real winners living here. Maybe it says something about me and I'll take my lumps if it does. Every woman I've dated after age 30 or so brought nothing to the table except her pussy and a list of wants and desires. It's not so obvious upon a casual perusal but when you really look at it that's what comes down to. Also women can't make me laugh. That's probably the biggy.

Wants and desires aren't exclusive to women. I would hope you'd have a list of wants and desires in life too?

Would your tune change if you found a financially successful mama? I'm guessing yeah.
 
Wants and desires aren't exclusive to women. I would hope you'd have a list of wants and desires in life too?

Would your tune change if you found a financially successful mama? I'm guessing yeah.

I'm not wired to use women as utility or otherwise.
 
I'm not wired to use women as utility or otherwise.

But you're wired to enjoy pussy, no?

So if one came along with a successful financially-stable woman attached to it, it could be an enticing proposition? Or you've simply deemed that you don't want a woman, of any kind, to share your life with... which is fine too.
 
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