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You are funny. Your own posts reveals your ignorance. Clearly you are not understanding what is being discussed.
Good luck, glad you found a winner and she did too.
Should men enter into marriage? Is it in their interest?
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You are funny. Your own posts reveals your ignorance. Clearly you are not understanding what is being discussed.
Good luck, glad you found a winner and she did too.
Roadghost
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Over 80% of marriages work out fine last study I saw. If you plan on getting divorced, no it doesn't work out for the man any way you look at it. But it's your job to make the thing work, to bend and be tolerant, just like it is hers. Most people who get divorced have personality problems in my experience. If you have a great partner it all works out. As for kids, if you don't want them let your partner know before marriage. Many women want kids, even the ones who say they don't, so don't be fooled. If she wants them she's going to have them unless you've been snipped, in which case if she finds out you're shooting blanks she'll probably leave you.
Riceburner
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The ratio is closer to 50%. If you were planning to get divorced, you wouldn't have gotten caught in the first place.
Child support isn't the issue, the rest is.
Riceburner
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Why so it is.....
Child support would be a bit of an issue for me. Not to be understood tho, of course I want to and would in fact support the child gladly, but I would have preferred to do it in the family unit. With alimony and child support and two addresses you're paying more for less and suffering rejection to boot. Only a 50/50 chance of that happening so that's kinda cool.
Wonder how many of the morons will get fired for skipping work
How's that wage gap coming along? Have they figured it out yet?
Yeah, they finally discovered that women avoid all the tough jobs!
I don't expect line-ups at the local construction sites.
There are many legitimate reasons why women make less than men on average. Almost none of them have anything to do with the patriarchy or oppression. Yet it remains a main talking point.
Thank your local leftard.
Riceburner
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Should men get married? sure. Should they think about why, how and whats before proposing? sure.
The reality is people change. The cute girl you found may not want to work till 60, she may find the guy she married that liked to workout and took care of himself now likes Bud lite and fishing. Maybe shes a saver and your an idiot, her younger sister is hot and you nailed her. People change.
If you don't change and evolve as a couple, you go your own ways. And its kind of expensive.
The reality is people change. The cute girl you found may not want to work till 60, she may find the guy she married that liked to workout and took care of himself now likes Bud lite and fishing. Maybe shes a saver and your an idiot, her younger sister is hot and you nailed her. People change.
If you don't change and evolve as a couple, you go your own ways. And its kind of expensive.
Going by the 50/50 rule it's just as likely people don't change, rather become caricatures of their younger selves imho. For example if you marry (or even date) a girl who monkee branched to you you should expect her to monkee branch away from you. In the traditional upwardly mobile style. Living a values based life would negate that.
Marry a girl who makes more than you. Keep her working. Then she'll be paying you support.
