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"hater" :lol:
Okay, you win. Now go out in public wearing a stained wife beater and a pair of too short navy jogging pants with green crocs and white socks and let me know how you feel
Everyone likes to look their best. When you go out in public and you look put together and walk with confidence people listen to you, want to speak with you and respect you more. I feel like I command the attention I deserve when I am dressed to kill. How I feel inside is directly represented in how I dress myself. Yesterday a man who I just met one other time asked me to choose which 500k condo unit he would buy and how much off the list price he should negotiate for and then thanked me for helping him. I don't know anything about condo's and I was just looking to buy myself. I had on a white blouse, a grey pencil skirt and 5" peep toe snake skin platform heels. If I was wearing jeans and t-shirt he wouldn't have cared to hear what I had to say.
Besides, since when do you set the bar when it comes to what is respectable looking and what is not? Subjective much? 6inch heels can be trashy, but they are not exclusively so.
I like how you go from one extreme to another... as if you have to go from 6" heels to stained t-shirts and crocs. That's cute how you're desperately trying to deny the truth I've posted. It's also cute that every single woman I've ever spoken to about the subject has the exact same answer.... "maybe for other girls, but for me its different!"
Stop lying to yourselves ladies. The only reason it gives you confidence is because it's attractive, and attraction is nothing without the opposite (or same, in some cases) sex. You wouldn't wear it if we didn't deem it attractive, and that's indisputable fact. Where some of you fail to draw the line is when crossing into the absurd, trashy kind of 'attractive'. That's the part I struggle to understand... what kind of woman gets confidence from appearing trashy? How does she draw confidence from looking like a stripper, an object of no other value besides sex? I can't think of anything other than desperation.
I'm not talking about all heels.. I thought I was pretty clear on that. 6" heels are ridiculous... they're so over-the-top and impractical that they only send one clear message: I'm trying really, really hard
Tall girls are sexy. I'm 5'10, you're 5'8, let's just get it over with and hook up already
This thread reminds me of this picture:
who are you talking too and where's the pic? lol
i don't know what kind of women your referring too... just because someone likes wearing higher heels doesn't mean they are doing it in a trashy way... I wear a lot of pant suits and majority of the time you cant even tell that my shoes are so high. I wear them because i feel comfortable in them.
I think your generalizing a little too much. I mean I'm not wearing a kilt that barely covers my *** with clear stripper stilettos. That's for the bedroom! lol
I agree with you that SOME women over do it but you can just start generalizing and bashing everyone based on one a few situations.
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i dunno... but they are! believe it or not!
I have all of the above... the ones i have on right now just happen to be 6".. i wouldn't buy a pair shoes if it wasn't comfortable. I have tried on flats that have been completely uncomfortable as well.
5" = not trashy. 6" = trashy. So one inch goes sexy to trashy? Now who's going from one extreme to another.
I actually think you probably spend to much time looking at porn on line because I bet you have no idea what a 6" heel looks like. Perhaps we are picturing different heels. Most girls, myself included don't own any made out of acrylic.
I will be the first to admit that I am not able to intimidate people or command respect with my physical presence like a man would so I use attraction. Tit for tat. It's not desperation, manipulation? Maybe.
If you are arguing that women dress up for the sole reason of being attractive to men, then you are dead wrong. I don't come home and throw joggers on. My husband used to yell at me for wearing heels all around the house. When we go away on girls weekends do we lay around looking like slobs with no make up on? Nope. You have to stop generalizing.
No Im thinking more along the lines of going from 4 to 6. Obviously style of the shoe makes a huge difference and 4" heels can be "stripper heels" too but the taller you go the more exclusive it becomes
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I just met up with Foxxy for coffee and her heels match her suit quite fine. She didn't look trashy at all. I only wish I could have stayed longer.
I think it all depends on the style of heel chicks where. I don't think the length of the heel has anything to do with it.
I think it all depends on the style of heel chicks where. I don't think the length of the heel has anything to do with it.
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lmao!
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Yeah, sorry... but that's kinda what I expected... a high heel platform, trying so hard. I can easily see a stripper wearing that shoe, it doesn't need to be made of plastic.
My wife (5'8", slim, for the record) has a closet full of heels. I go shoe shopping with her.. I know what I like, heels are sexy. Tall heels and platforms on the other hand? Begging for attention!
And yes Im arguing that women dress up for the "sole reason of being attractive to men" but in a different context. I already explained it but I'll say it again... you dress up for the confidence you get from that attraction, but the fact remains that attraction of the opposite sex is the root of that confidence. Its ingrained in you, its marketed to you from a young age, its the social norm. It doesn't matter if you wear heels around your own house "for yourself", you're simply invoking the feeling of confidence (and whatever other gratification it gives you) knowing that it makes you look "attractive". And what is attraction, again?
Why are women so desperate to deny this? Why can't you admit that it makes you feel good because its attractive to the opposite sex?
Hahahaha... not begging for attention at all... but if you wanna think that then so be it!
I wear em cause i like em, i think their really nice and i find em very comfortable. And yes... i think i look good in them. I like dressing well and looking good but who doesn't?
The power of submitting yourself to the desires of the opposite sex? Sure, whatever you say
6" heels belong in a circus.
There's modest, there's hot, and then there's 'desperately seeking attention'...
Chicks who wear ridiculously huge heels are trying too hard to make up for something they lack. There's nothing hot or confident about obvious desperation.
Okay, here you go. You said these things. Some one is back peddling. Take out "submit yourself to the opposite sex", "looking like nothing more than a sexual object" and "if nobody was around to look at you you wouldn't be wearing them and that is a fact" These are the misogynistic and incorrect things you have stated.
LOL how am I back pedaling? I don't deny saying those things, they're true...
What do you think "looking sexy" and "looking trashy" means? How exactly do you think men view strippers and hookers? With respect and admiration? Or with deviant sexual desire?
When you dress the part, what else are you doing besides submitting yourself to the opposite sex to be looked at and regarded as an object?
And you wouldn't be wearing them if men didn't find them sexually appealing. I find women's need to deny this simple fact laughable.. why does it bother you so much that the feeling of confidence you get from your high heels and sexy dresses is derived entirely from inciting attraction of the opposite sex? Why does that bug you? Why is it misogynistic for me to point that out? You've yet to argue it in any sensible manner...
What do you think "looking sexy" and "looking trashy" means? How exactly do you think men view strippers and hookers? With respect and admiration? Or with deviant sexual desire?
When you dress the part, what else are you doing besides submitting yourself to the opposite sex to be looked at and regarded as an object?
And you wouldn't be wearing them if men didn't find them sexually appealing. I find women's need to deny this simple fact laughable.. why does it bother you so much that the feeling of confidence you get from your high heels and sexy dresses is derived entirely from inciting attraction of the opposite sex? Why does that bug you? Why is it misogynistic for me to point that out? You've yet to argue it in any sensible manner...
