LOL, why did I know I'd find Sunny in this thread. Shoulda bought a Honda, right?
Good thing Honda has never had
any history of major transmission issues (cough) spread across multiple model years (cough) for a long period of time before they finally addressed it and fixed the issue. (cough cough). I won't even mention the later model years.
Hey, while we're on the topic,
how are those Ridgelines doing that the gas tank likes to fall off of?
/s
OP, this is a ****** situation, but you need to find a better dealer than one that's just leaving it sitting while they tend to other more profitable and less time consuming jobs. Squeaky wheel gets the grease as others have said. Make some noise, politely, but firmly.