How soon is too soon?

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Okay, lying about his age is just plain wrong.
Age difference really isn't that big of a problem though.

is this guy on gtam?
 
STaylorT said:
Okay. So more of an update... This guys "grandma" is 36... He is 22.... Be he has been telling this woman he is 32..

I've been trying to tell him that he is literally doing EVERYTHING wrong. A woman this age is probably not looking for a play thing.... But an actual man. Someone to join the family. This woman has a daughter that is closer to my friends age, than he is to her age. He still insists that he loves her, but still won't tell her his real age.

It's impossible trying to talk to this guy. MAYBE ALL OF GTAM CAN TELL HIM THAT WHAT HE'S DOING IS WRONG LOL.

This friend has a habit of never listening to me. The last argument was about him never wearing gear. He said he was a great rider, and wouldnt fall.... And that I jinx him when I tell him he's going to go down eventually. So this friend... (first season rider) gets rid of his 250 cc... Jumps to a 600cc.. And crashes within 2 hours of getting his bike..... Shorts and a t shirt.

"I TOLD YOU SO?".

Why won't he listennnn!!?!?

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36 yr old grandma. That family has loose morals.
 
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nothing more to say.. close this thread and move on..
 
There is so much wrong with this whole scenario I don't even know where to start....

1) Saying I love you when you haven't even been together long enough to know each other
2) Saying I love you over text for the first time? That's a joke...
3) She doesn't even know his real age?? The man she "thinks" she loves... but doesn't even know the truth about him.
4) Him saying he loves her in response, all the while maintaining the lie about his age - that is not love! That's just scumbag sleazy.

Here's what you should tell this guy: GROW THE F UP - he clearly does not have the maturity to maintain a relationship with this older woman if it is predicated on a lie about his age.
 
rmemedic said:
The last person I said the L word to I was ready to marry. I've dated a few girls since and haven't even thought of saying it, even when it was said to me.
Ive been with this awesome girl for 3 weeks now. All that gets said is "I really like you." love isn't love until its someone you would make long term sacrifices for and youre happy to do it. My ex, I was giving up my racing to be a dad to her kid and I was ok with it because I loved her. But after only a few weeks of being with someone, you truly can't love someone. I'm sure if I said it to the new girl she would say it back. But, I know we're in the "you're so awesome and let's f#*k" stage... And that's not love, despite the feelings were currently experiencing.

Oh, and I know a smoking hot 32 year old grandma that I would do in a heartbeat!
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The last (and only girl) I said "I love you" too was after she said it to me and I knew that's what she REALLY wanted to hear. This was after dating about 6-8 months. Yep, I said it without meaning it. Later when I broke up with her I really felt like a piece of ****. It really destroyed her and she even said to me "Never do the same thing to anyone else that you did to me".........so I never did. I've never used the L word since.

My current GF said "I love you" to me about 2-3 weeks ago. I didn't say it back, she cried for about 2-3 hours....I'm 100% serious. BUT **** IT, she'll get over it and I get to sleep at night knowing I didn't lie.

I've never said it and meant it cause I've honestly NEVER been in love with a non-family member (no incest) and that's the honest truth.
 
Sabex said:
Okay, lying about his age is just plain wrong.
Age difference really isn't that big of a problem though.

is this guy on gtam?
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Yes he isss! I want him to hear it from someone other then me! That he THINKS he is in love... He was also "In Love" with another girl 3 months ago!

after seeing this, I hope he reevaluates this whole situation...
 
AngelEyez said:
There is so much wrong with this whole scenario I don't even know where to start....

1) Saying I love you when you haven't even been together long enough to know each other
2) Saying I love you over text for the first time? That's a joke...
3) She doesn't even know his real age?? The man she "thinks" she loves... but doesn't even know the truth about him.
4) Him saying he loves her in response, all the while maintaining the lie about his age - that is not love! That's just scumbag sleazy.

Here's what you should tell this guy: GROW THE F UP - he clearly does not have the maturity to maintain a relationship with this older woman if it is predicated on a lie about his age.
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We have a WINNER! :cheers:
+1
 
Just to add some comments on some of the previous posts:

RockerGuy said:
I'm still trying to wrap around my head of a 14 yr old getting pregnant
How times have changed
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Have they really changed? If anything pregnant at 14 used to be the norm 100 years ago

STaylorT said:
A woman this age is probably not looking for a play thing
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Actually, most older women that would go after a significantly younger man want EXACTLY that........a play thing.
 
i love being a play thing.

oops, said the L word...
 
Roasted said:
Have they really changed? If anything pregnant at 14 used to be the norm 100 years ago
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What I meant was, it was very unusual 100 yrs ago. Its probably the norm now
 
I find it funny that he thinks she doesn't know he's 22....
 
nfq said:
I find it funny that he thinks she doesn't know he's 22....
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I thought about that. But it's only been 2 weeks, and they're already saying "I love you". Not much clear mindedness there.

But boy, when that comes out, I home someone captures that conversation.
 
All of you guys are a jerk and judgemental human beings .which person has never lied in a relationship ? Which person has never lie about their age to a hot chick because they are scared they might be too young for them ? Which person here has never lied and said I love you for a piece of ass ? All of you can sit there and type **** but you need to be a man to stand up and be honest with yourself ....I have it on good authority that this guy met this chick a year and half ago and she was te cutest woman he ever met and ovoiously he lied to "get with her" but never did so they remain really close friends then recently they got serious and after 2 weeks of dating she fell for him but he wasn't too sure how he felt he had mixed feelings... But after she said it he said it back in panic and scared of losing her .... But after they said it it came clear to this guy that he indeeds love her but now he's scared of losing her because of his initial lies .......... Which one of us here can honestly say we've never lied about our age for the sake of sex but the. Fell for that person ?? ? He may not be the smartest person out there when it comes to relationships because of his past hurts but he is doing the best to hide his heart and be an ******* and have sex with every walking woman out there but along the line someone made a difference in his life ....
 
LorenzoN said:
Which one of us here can honestly say we've never lied about our age for the sake of sex but the. Fell for that person ?? ? ....
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ME! :smile:
Its simple.
Honesty is important if you want a long term relationship and not just a piece of A**. :sex:
 
STaylorT said:
Okay. So more of an update... This guys "grandma" is 36... He is 22.... Be he has been telling this woman he is 32..

I've been trying to tell him that he is literally doing EVERYTHING wrong. A woman this age is probably not looking for a play thing.... But an actual man. Someone to join the family. This woman has a daughter that is closer to my friends age, than he is to her age. He still insists that he loves her, but still won't tell her his real age.

It's impossible trying to talk to this guy. MAYBE ALL OF GTAM CAN TELL HIM THAT WHAT HE'S DOING IS WRONG LOL.

This friend has a habit of never listening to me. The last argument was about him never wearing gear. He said he was a great rider, and wouldnt fall.... And that I jinx him when I tell him he's going to go down eventually. So this friend... (first season rider) gets rid of his 250 cc... Jumps to a 600cc.. And crashes within 2 hours of getting his bike..... Shorts and a t shirt.

"I TOLD YOU SO?".

Why won't he listennnn!!?!?

......
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If your friend is 22 but can pass as 32 he must not be aging very gracefully and will probably look older than the grandma in a few years.
 
LorenzoN said:
All of you guys are a jerk and judgemental human beings .which person has never lied in a relationship ? Which person has never lie about their age to a hot chick because they are scared they might be too young for them ? Which person here has never lied and said I love you for a piece of *** ? All of you can sit there and type **** but you need to be a man to stand up and be honest with yourself ....I have it on good authority that this guy met this chick a year and half ago and she was te cutest woman he ever met and ovoiously he lied to "get with her" but never did so they remain really close friends then recently they got serious and after 2 weeks of dating she fell for him but he wasn't too sure how he felt he had mixed feelings... But after she said it he said it back in panic and scared of losing her .... But after they said it it came clear to this guy that he indeeds love her but now he's scared of losing her because of his initial lies .......... Which one of us here can honestly say we've never lied about our age for the sake of sex but the. Fell for that person ?? ? He may not be the smartest person out there when it comes to relationships because of his past hurts but he is doing the best to hide his heart and be an ******* and have sex with every walking woman out there but along the line someone made a difference in his life ....
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I think we found the "friend"!
 
LorenzoN said:
.......... Which one of us here can honestly say we've never lied about our age for the sake of sex....
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I think your perception on things are quite screwed up. Im sure MANY people have not lied about their age. Not everyone has to lie about their age to get tail. Regardless... THISSS is too soon for "love". I swear my little sister is more mature... And she's still in high school... Lol
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