So I went with a Toto Nexus. I wanted the Aquis IV but Plumbing & Parts in Whitby only had the Nexus in stock plus on sale. And I am an instant gratification kind of guy, so I wasn't waiting for the Aquis to be ordered.
Its a super odd install process for the toilet. I had to drill 6 holes into the floor to mount the base for the toilet. My floor is all concrete with radiant in-floor heating, so it really was just a hope and pray sort of thing while drilling. At least I don't have real tile flooring, only vinyl.
Also kind of effed up on ordering the bidet. Apparently there is Washlet and Washlet+ bidets from Toto - honestly I'm still not sure how I would have know there was a difference because Toto's website doesn't really explain it (and the amazon page didn't mention either). Since the Nexus is a Washlet+ toilet and the bidet I ordered is only a Washlet, I've got the water line from the bidet running outside the toilet, where it should be running through a passage in the toilet and be never seen. The difference between the two is the mounting bracket for the bidet itself and the water line has a different fitting. They are $$$ but I will likely buy the parts to hid the line. Still even with buying the new parts I'm in it a lot less than what Toto's MSRP is
Nexus® WASHLET®+ S550e One-Piece Toilet - 1.28 GPF
Its pretty great though. It ridiculous to have bought it but I really do like it.