@nobbie48 , if a parenting fail exists, there is the model. She was smoking pot at 10 and doing molly at 12 , we had no control.
It sounds like they would have had to home school her while handcuffed to a desk to control her. There's only so much you can do. If you walk her up the front steps of the school and she goes out the back door with her friends to their "spot" in the woods, where do you stand? Is the school supposed to chain her to a desk? You can put a lock on her door and bars on he windows at home, but from the sound of it she was a budding Houdini. Blink and she was gone. That said, the health care system and CAS DEFINITELY failed them. After ODing twice at the age of 12 they should have been able to institutionalize her for her own good.