I agree with a whack of different stuff in this thread. Our thirtysomething generation is the last of the world to grow up in a world of no cell phones, road hockey and unsupervised playing outside. Men are becoming more feminine simply for the fact that less is required of them nowadays. Women have become much stronger for themselves over the years, so maybe its not that men have become more "feminine", but women have become more "masculine"? I put that in quotations cuz is there really such a thing anymore?
I remember back in the day when you were in a scrap, either u or the other dude was getting knocked out, those encounters and how we presented ourselves on the street to other people helped shape who we were as men. Now we've grown up and we try to teach our kids to stick up for themselves, they try and they get shot by some pussy kid scared to get punched. So what do we do, we lock up our loved ones indoors and drop em in front of a TV with a PS3 for hours to keep them busy. So ya, youre gonna find alot of boys who aint used to that growing up a little timid and confused about how to approach a woman. We're in an impersonal time in the world where people would rather send a text message to avoid having to actually speak to the other person. I remember when I wasnt married women were complex, imagine a dude who spends most of his time interacting with females over Facebook and Twitter, he's gonna have no game because like alot of people in the world today, they feel as if everything should be handed to them, including the p***y! I feel for the ladies who say that the men are gone, the generation theyre attracted to have gotten married, gotten old, still banging other random women and dont wanna settle or just plain gotten desperate to the point they arent attractive to a woman anymore. Youre trying to find a good man, nothing good ever comes easy.....just ask my wife
About the video game thing, I have a PS3 and a wife I've been with for over 12 years. Its never been a problem, in fact my wife figures its either me at home doin that or me on the road somewhere. My wife is at the center my universe and I make an effort to make sure she knows that, when your chick is in some hot lingerie and your telling her to hang on cuz your in the middle of a clan battle online, things start getting f***ed for people, but that goes for anything in life. You start neglecting the one u say u love for PS3, friends, weed, booze, even motorcycles for some couples, youre gonna lose that person to someone who gives them their undivided attention.
which sucks. That's the only meat I miss.
