Loose women are a huge turn off. Oh the irony.
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It's different between men and women. The media portrays an ideal man as one that doesn't feel, deals with everything alone, and is physically strong. Women on the other hand, are allowed to show feelings.
I can only speak for the guy side but I think the media is incredibly ****ing stupid. If superior men really had no feels, most of us would be ****ed up due to single sided parenting.
.........I cannot, however, be remotely sympathetic about failing diets due to feelings lol
油井緋色;2262444 said:
I think you got it backwards. The standard now for males is to be feminine as hell in look and feelings. Hell I have ladies who work for me who say you can barely tell who's gay and who's not in toronto even after going on a date!! We need to get more back towards the strong type. Men these days are total beetches.....and the lumbersexuals don't count...they think they are manly but are still femmy as hell behind the beard ,boots and plaid
Women generally say they want a man who's strong, rational, and is able to control his emotions, etc. But at the same time they want the guy to do a complete 180 and be "sensitive" around them, etc. It's a bit of a paradox. It would be like saying, I want a woman that looks beautiful for me but dresses like crap and looks like a hag when I'm not around so that no other guy hits on her. Can't have your cake and eat it too.
It's a bit of a balancing act. If you are too far down the sensitive side you are a huge vagina that everyone will walk all over, if you are too far down the "cold/rational" side then you are, well.....you are me 2+ years ago. I'm actively trying to move myself closer to the middle now (and apparently getting made fun of on GTAM for it daily).
It's a bit of a balancing act. If you are too far down the sensitive side you are a huge vagina that everyone will walk all over, if you are too far down the "cold/rational" side then you are, well.....you are me 2+ years ago. I'm actively trying to move myself closer to the middle now (and apparently getting made fun of on GTAM for it daily).
I haven't touched weed in 2 years.........I can't. I miss it but it's just not worth the risk for me.
EDIT: LOL, I love Married With Children. Have the first like 6 seasons on DVD. I don't watch too many TV shows now adays so the internet and my own life is my own entertainment.
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If you want feminine men take a walk to P Mall. I kid you not, you will get a heart attack.
Lumbersexuals, really? LOL Never heard that term before but I've noticed a lot of artsy type chicks going after them. I thought the stereotype you mentioned was exclusive to Asian men but I suppose it may have moved to the West too lol
That thing I bolded describes a lot of women I know perfectly. The worst part is when I look back, I enforced that behaviour by being their security blanket; in hindsight, I should've just let them **** up and leave. Effort is better spent on yourself!
Rage aside, I've been on both the emo and cold side. In fact the cold side was where I was at 6 years ago. You cannot change who you are at core; instead, you need to become in tune with yourself, be happy with who you are and accept yourself. When you accept yourself, you realize you're ****ing amazing (we all are). Once that acceptance truly sinks in, if someone comes along in your life and doesn't live up to your standards...you either compromise a bit, or Spartan kick them out of your life without any regret.
油井緋色;2262444 said:
Some people go to sex or drugs or alcohol to deal with their feelings.
Some of us go to McDonald's.
Others go to gtam
We all deal with our issues differently. Being an emotional eater is a major part of why I'm a fat b******. And not exercising.
And Roasted, remember the words of Peter Griffin, Family Guy "fat girls need love too; but they gotta pay"
Do fat chicks pay for sex? Curious...
Some people go to sex or drugs or alcohol to deal with their feelings.
Some of us go to McDonald's.
Others go to gtam
We all deal with our issues differently. Being an emotional eater is a major part of why I'm a fat b******. And not exercising.
And Roasted, remember the words of Peter Griffin, Family Guy "fat girls need love too; but they gotta pay"
I Like your honesty ( compliment). But I also want to point out I think you are deluded. Based on every post I have seen on here from you from the beginning. You started in the middle and are running towards the rose petals, cuddling and antiquing lifestyle....with a side order of Miata, Audi TT and cayman
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I'm so manly I smell like a blend of musk, tobacco & sweat. Not the pungent F'n BO but a more pleasant body smell.
On my off day I smell like a Calvin Klein model.
Oh yeah I don't like to get in current trends with hippie bullsht. I haven't got into the faux hawk bullsht, & haven't gotten into the big glasses retardedness. All my fashion is functional
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I did some self analysis today:
Total of 13 exs since I started dating, 4 are flings (so not technically exs). Total time being out of a relationship (this includes being with flings) is 1 year in 13 years. Out of the 13 exs, 3 are still friends, the other 10 I want no association with because they either have no direction in life, were/are crazy, or lack the capacity for empathy.
When people say "you're over thinking too much", and the analysis is not going in a circle, it means whatever thinking is being done is critical and hitting very uncomfortable points. I'd imagine there are quite a few people like me out there with similar numbers if not higher. A scary thought is "how far would I be if I focused on myself instead of wasting that time chasing skirts?"
Can't wait for warm weather so I can take the bike out and do something I truly enjoy.
Stellar thread. So what's the accepted definition of sensitive? Just because somebody acts sensitive and carries all the hallmarks per trend of sensitivity doesn't mean they're sensitive imho. Notice I used humble? That's 'cause I'm sensitive. I'm seeing a lot of BS. You can be a rock solid guy and still be very sensitive w/o being a fruitcake. Sensitivity means being in tune and understanding and accommodating other people and their unique human condition. I don't think sensitivity calls for a prescribed dress code and grooming regimen.
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