I'm not sure I follow. What would be considered a proper dating etiquette?
That's the point.... There shouldn't be one. You should be able to do what feels right. If you have sexual chemistry right away then you should be able to bang on date one without judgement. Similarly, if you connect on an intellectual level first you should be able to chill with a girl and not try to get in her pants right away without being judged as a "pussy". People should be able to do what feels right. Proper etiquette is a load of crap. And funny enough I just saw some article on fb about a guy who took a girl on a second date after banging on date one like it's some amazing out of ordinary thing he did so obviously this isn't just in my head.