When someone (armed or unarmed) breaks into your home and threatens your family, who will you call? Wouldn't want an armed/ unarmed (good kid) getting shot by police over a misunderstanding. Perhaps you can make him a coffee and psychoanalyze him for a while and then determine who to call. His parents, girlfriend, brother... I am calling the police because I don't care what your story is, I have the right to be safe! If the police shoot you, not my fault. Obey the law= NOT being shot!