It helps that she is compliant, or inclined towards that activity.It helps that Mom is a biologist and Dad is a professor of ornithology.
If one of Mike's kids turns out to be a mass murderer, I will definitely blame MIke - not!
It helps that she is compliant, or inclined towards that activity.It helps that Mom is a biologist and Dad is a professor of ornithology.
Well, in Waterloo Region all minor hockey, high school hockey and adult hockey has been shut down as far as I can tell.They shouldn’t be in arenas at this point (and at other points) though…that’s the thing. It’s not just a free for all in schools that’s a bad idea.
They were playing the other day in puslinch games after public skatingWell, in Waterloo Region all minor hockey, high school hockey and adult hockey has been shut down as far as I can tell.
So, they’re not in arenas.
I was lucky, my parents are "middle class" immigrants from the poorest country in the western hemisphere who moved to get better lives. So nothing was handed to them, but they got decent jobs (Revenue Quebec for one and ESL Teacher for the other..) then we ended up starting our family business so i was put to work when i was 8-9 to help with the "IT" of the company, I haven't spent a year not working since.I was born with a plastic spoon in my mouth. 18 year old mom, 19 year old dad, booth with vocational high school education, both raised in by blue collar parents. They were taught to work hard (work ethic), to be resilient under pressure and to deal with challenges head.
I got the same upbringing, although there weren't 14 kids in the house so our standard of living improved year by year. Work ethic and determination paid off for them, they taught that to us and it paid off for me and my sister. I taught that to my kids and despite the stresses of my work constant travel and our many distant family moves, they too learned to work hard, take measured risks and how to be resilient.
They have a body of friends I have known since they were teens -- the families who coddled and defended lasy or troublesome kids whned up with lazy and troublesome adult kids.
If you kids tell you their friends don't have to shovel snow, cut the lawn or take out the garbage - empathize then smile inside.
If you're kids get in trouble at school, never assume it's the teacher's fault or the other bully. Defend your kids when necessary, prepare them to defend themselves when that's the responsible thing to do.
Help them financially by teaching them about money, how to borrow from you and pay things back, and always have conditions when you have to bail them out.
24 months of home hardship need not damage kids - it's a learning opportunity. 24 months of having their parents tell them the system is damaging them just might.
Most kids in high school in this mess are going to have a really rough go after graduation. Many have not had the typical high school experiences/life learning/jobs. What does higher education look like when the entry classes are not even normal high school maturity? Similarly but less affected are the kids in higher education. What do they look like coming out when they completed the vast majority of their program remote with little human interaction?If you had a less fortunate home situation, you got the sheety end of the stick. Sure there are lots of things parents can do, but there are only so many resources that are available during a pandemic. I'm grateful that my kids are this young as this will just be a bump in the road for them, my youngest might not even remember. But for some kids, their lives will have changed drastically.
Most kids in high school in this mess are going to have a really rough go after graduation. Many have not had the typical high school experiences/life learning/jobs. What does higher education look like when the entry classes are not even normal high school maturity? Similarly but less affected are the kids in higher education. What do they look like coming out when they completed the vast majority of their program remote with little human interaction?
I know someone that took a niece to a party where she met a guy and it seemed like they hit it off. Then they split off and went to different sides of the venue. Nothing went wrong. They spent the evening texting each other from across the room.Have you met the average youth these days? Little actual human contact is the norm even in non-COVID times. They would rather FaceTime someone that lives next door than actually get off the sofa to go and look them in the eyes. I hold office hours for my courses, recently online but before that in-person. They are deserts of despair! I get a few regulars but not much else. The thought of actually talking in person scares the bejesus out of them and I’m one of the approachable ones!
I wonder how much of the isolation now starts at home. I shared a bedroom with my brother so we didn't have any private space. We had one telephone so little in the way of secret conversations, complaining about your parents wasn't an option.Most kids in high school in this mess are going to have a really rough go after graduation. Many have not had the typical high school experiences/life learning/jobs. What does higher education look like when the entry classes are not even normal high school maturity? Similarly but less affected are the kids in higher education. What do they look like coming out when they completed the vast majority of their program remote with little human interaction?
Sounds familiar. Except i had to walk to school 2 miles uphill, both ways.I wonder how much of the isolation now starts at home. I shared a bedroom with my brother so we didn't have any private space. We had one telephone so little in the way of secret conversations, complaining about your parents wasn't an option.
One TV so either read in your room or watch according to house rules. We ate what mom cooked. There were no individually frozen prepped and wrapped meals to be microwaved. Everything was closed Sundays so there was Sunday dinner....be there.
Copy-write the above^^^I was born with a plastic spoon in my mouth. 18 year old mom, 19 year old dad, booth with vocational high school education, both raised in by blue collar parents. They were taught to work hard (work ethic), to be resilient under pressure and to deal with challenges head.
I got the same upbringing, although there weren't 14 kids in the house so our standard of living improved year by year. Work ethic and determination paid off for them, they taught that to us and it paid off for me and my sister. I taught that to my kids and despite the stresses of my work constant travel and our many distant family moves, they too learned to work hard, take measured risks and how to be resilient.
They have a body of friends I have known since they were teens -- the families who coddled and defended lasy or troublesome kids whned up with lazy and troublesome adult kids.
If you kids tell you their friends don't have to shovel snow, cut the lawn or take out the garbage - empathize then smile inside.
If you're kids get in trouble at school, never assume it's the teacher's fault or the other bully. Defend your kids when necessary, prepare them to defend themselves when that's the responsible thing to do.
Help them financially by teaching them about money, how to borrow from you and pay things back, and always have conditions when you have to bail them out.
24 months of home hardship need not damage kids - it's a learning opportunity. 24 months of having their parents tell them the system is damaging them just might.
Had a long text for this but...Copy-write the above^^^
How does anyone expect the children to adjust to this situation when the parents can't?
Ha - that's nothing. My school was 4 km and they never plowed the sidewalks so I did it in knee deep snow.Sounds familiar. Except i had to walk to school 2 miles uphill, both ways.
Can't pin it on the youth alone. I have two adult friends (56 & 64 years old) who text each other from different rooms.Have you met the average youth these days? Little actual human contact is the norm even in non-COVID times. They would rather FaceTime someone that lives next door than actually get off the sofa to go and look them in the eyes. I hold office hours for my courses, recently online but before that in-person. They are deserts of despair! I get a few regulars but not much else. The thought of actually talking in person scares the bejesus out of them and I’m one of the approachable ones!
Cue the Monty Python "luxury" sketch. " Right! I got up at 10 o'clock, half an hour before I went to bed......"Ha - that's nothing. My school was 4 km and they never plowed the sidewalks so I did it in knee deep snow.
Four YorkshiremenCue the Monty Python "luxury" sketch. " Right! I got up at 10 o'clock, half an hour before I went to bed......"
I didn't have a bed.Cue the Monty Python "luxury" sketch. " Right! I got up at 10 o'clock, half an hour before I went to bed......"