Only 50% of men would dump a chick if she got fat.

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ashkan said:
This whole country's legal system is ******** when it comes to equality! There is no equality. Men get raped 'legally' when it comes to any topic involving a woman. Divorce, custody, sexual harassment and pretty much anything involving a woman. They give everything to the woman including the custody since the baby needs the 'mom' more. yet that same mom is out worrying about her "career" and dumping the kid in daycare everyday so the kid doesnt even see the mom! or like someone mentioned up there, shes out there whoring out and bringing home a different 'uncle' for the child every night! men have no rights in this country! and its our own fault. Femenists have been kicking us in the face for decades and we just sat their and paid them more money and rights to keep them happy but that just made them more greedy.
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You've obviously witnessed a bad scenerio or two, actually sounds like you are in it yourself.

Your post is rather harsh but I think the anger is misdirected. Yes the legal system is biased but its those individual women who are pushing for what they get. Its those women who do those actions and pushed for that custody arrangement, compensation etc. The legal system has no care about ones sexual practices and I think we all like it that way??? I know I wouldnt want to have to get legal permission to sleep with someone. Plus I know the legal system is changing. A friend of mine recently won in court.

As for daycare... I know a few moms who bust their *** at work to give the kid everything they can. In the cases I know of the kid is in every music class dance class etc that they could ever ask for. Mom puts in overtime just to afford it.

Plus don't forget deadbeat dads. I have one friend whos mom ran away when she was 5 but I know of more run away dads. Its a two way street. Unfortunately youve got a divider up and are unable to see the other direction.
 
In their defence, I see just as many dudes let go as soon as they manage to land a chick.

My buddy's girlfriend was a hottie when she got her, but she's actually getting pretty big now. The only reason he hasn't left her is 'cause she pays for everything. That, and I think he loves her or some crap like that. :o

 
If you're only in a relationship for the looks you've got a lot of maturing to do. You're also going to be lonely.

Being able to hold a conversation will take you a lot farther than looks or getting big when you're old and sitting on the front porch together.
 
CrazyKell said:
If you're only in a relationship for the looks you've got a lot of maturing to do. You're also going to be lonely.

Being able to hold a conversation will take you a lot farther than looks or getting big when you're old and sitting on the front porch together.
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Agreed!! Ive got a Great Uncle whos going thru the crappy end of it now. Divorced and alone... in line for an old folks home that got picked out by his brothers family....

Looks turn my eye but personality keeps me there. If you suck as a person I'm not hanging around...
 
THIS JUST IN..................50% of men would dump a chick if she got fat, the other 50% are lying.
 
Cat13 said:
You've obviously witnessed a bad scenerio or two, actually sounds like you are in it yourself.

Your post is rather harsh but I think the anger is misdirected. Yes the legal system is biased but its those individual women who are pushing for what they get. Its those women who do those actions and pushed for that custody arrangement, compensation etc. The legal system has no care about ones sexual practices and I think we all like it that way??? I know I wouldnt want to have to get legal permission to sleep with someone. Plus I know the legal system is changing. A friend of mine recently won in court.

As for daycare... I know a few moms who bust their *** at work to give the kid everything they can. In the cases I know of the kid is in every music class dance class etc that they could ever ask for. Mom puts in overtime just to afford it.

Plus don't forget deadbeat dads. I have one friend whos mom ran away when she was 5 but I know of more run away dads. Its a two way street. Unfortunately youve got a divider up and are unable to see the other direction.
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Again the issue is that FATHERS who are DADS have to FIGHT for rights in the courts where as mothers who see the kids as $$$$ get a free pass. There should be more 50/50 splits of shared custody and $$ accordingly. That should be the starting point not mothers get all the rights and fathers have to beg.
 
knowledge said:
In their defence, I see just as many dudes let go as soon as they manage to land a chick.

My buddy's girlfriend was a hottie when she got her, but she's actually getting pretty big now. The only reason he hasn't left her is 'cause she pays for everything. That, and I think he loves her or some crap like that. :o
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+ 1. I can't even think of how many people I knew from high school (guys and gals) who have let themselves go in their late 20s - early 30s. Married or not, it's as though people eat as though they still had the metabolism of a 16 year-old.
 
CrazyKell said:
If you're only in a relationship for the looks you've got a lot of maturing to do. You're also going to be lonely.

Being able to hold a conversation will take you a lot farther than looks or getting big when you're old and sitting on the front porch together.
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Tell that to George Cloony.
 
rutakin said:
Again the issue is that FATHERS who are DADS have to FIGHT for rights in the courts where as mothers who see the kids as $$$$ get a free pass. There should be more 50/50 splits of shared custody and $$ accordingly. That should be the starting point not mothers get all the rights and fathers have to beg.
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For every scenario you describe, there's a father or mother who is trying to do the right thing. But is being held hostage by their ex who refuses to accept or acknowledge that at some point in time you chose to have a kid with this person, and that the kid needs the other parent.
 
rutakin said:
There should be more 50/50 splits of shared custody and $$ accordingly.
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While I agree with much of the sentiment about fathers getting the shaft by default, shared custody blows (speaking as a child of a shared custody arrangement). Children should not be pawns in a parental power struggle.

Also, a little more on topic: I am astounded that anyone, let alone 50% of any population, would actually say that they would terminate a relationship based on a bit of weight gain.
 
While I agree to some extent with much of this thread it is sad that everyone is so superficial... I know for me you would be gone if you don't have a great personality... As well I recognize there has to be an attraction... Also not every man gets @&$$$!!! There are women who have fantastic jobs, own there own homes, pay for their own crap and toys and have gone out with leaching men that would be pulling that court sh@$ if they had of had kids....hrnnn this sounds like it happened to a girl I know real well lol Jenn
 
Ash said:
While I agree with much of the sentiment about fathers getting the shaft by default, shared custody blows (speaking as a child of a shared custody arrangement). Children should not be pawns in a parental power struggle.
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Women. Screw 'em.

Wait a sec... that's how all the trouble starts in the first place! :D

Ash said:
Also, a little more on topic: I am astounded that anyone, let alone 50% of any population, would actually say that they would terminate a relationship based on a bit of weight gain.
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Agreed. Sad commentary, especially given that a lot of men also tend to pack on the pounds later in life too.
 
Ash said:
While I agree with much of the sentiment about fathers getting the shaft by default, shared custody blows (speaking as a child of a shared custody arrangement). Children should not be pawns in a parental power struggle.

Also, a little more on topic: I am astounded that anyone, let alone 50% of any population, would actually say that they would terminate a relationship based on a bit of weight gain.
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People "terminate relationships" because their partner changed and isn't "the person they fell in love with". Whether this is a physical change, or a personality/view change I think either way it is a valid reason and I can't see one being more "shallow" than the other. If your partner suddenly becomes extremely religious and you're not this could be a deal braker for some people. Is this any less "shallow" than your partner gaining 50 lbs? I'm a fit guy and I work out, this is part of who I am. If some girl starts dating me it is probably at least partially because that's what she likes in a mate and she's assuming I will continue to be fit. If I suddenly stopped working out, gained 50 lbs, and became a slob can I really blame her for leaving? Of course not. Just like I would leave her if she changed her life style into something that was not desirable to me too. How is this so difficult to understand.
 
short stop said:
+ 1. I can't even think of how many people I knew from high school (guys and gals) who have let themselves go in their late 20s - early 30s. Married or not, it's as though people eat as though they still had the metabolism of a 16 year-old.
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I do.....is that so bad?
 
Cat13 said:
You've obviously witnessed a bad scenerio or two, actually sounds like you are in it yourself.

Your post is rather harsh but I think the anger is misdirected. Yes the legal system is biased but its those individual women who are pushing for what they get. Its those women who do those actions and pushed for that custody arrangement, compensation etc. The legal system has no care about ones sexual practices and I think we all like it that way??? I know I wouldnt want to have to get legal permission to sleep with someone. Plus I know the legal system is changing. A friend of mine recently won in court.

As for daycare... I know a few moms who bust their *** at work to give the kid everything they can. In the cases I know of the kid is in every music class dance class etc that they could ever ask for. Mom puts in overtime just to afford it.

Plus don't forget deadbeat dads. I have one friend whos mom ran away when she was 5 but I know of more run away dads. Its a two way street. Unfortunately youve got a divider up and are unable to see the other direction.
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Ill take up your points in order from less significant to more important.
A) I cant say that every mother who has full custody and has to work her bum off to support her child had a choice in this but i can tell you than many (if not most) women choose to get full custody (in many cases to despite the man) and then are left in the financial gridlock and cant afford to pay for everything and have to work all the time. well this way the kid has no present parent where as if she shared custody 50/50 the father would be alot more involved and the kid would have both parents present and much more often. This way the father would have more insentive to want to be involved both emotionally and financially because this way he actually has a child. So in many case the woman chooses to take it all up on her own and ends up struggling through it and consequently hurting the kid.

B) you mentioned the deadbeat dads. I love how you chose the extreme ends (the perfect mother who works her bum off VS the dead beat dad). I would like to inform you that just the same, there are many trashy whores who call themselves moms and hang out at cougar bars and have a different man over all the time and many amazing fathers who would love to be a part of their child but law forbids them to. So dont just point out the case that works for your argument.

C) This is the most important part. What you said about court not being biased. This is (no offense) the bigges BS i hear from women. I am witnessing (and no not myself) a case where the father is in a much much better place mentally, physically and financially and has been trying for the past few years to have some custody of the kid and he cant. And i know this case like my own brother so i know all the details. He fathered the child with a woman 10 years ago by accident and of course she "chose" to keep the baby (which men also have no legal rights in this regard and have to sit on the side line and just pay for it for the rest of their lives when it cmoes to the topic of abortion but i wont get into that). The woman also had another child from another man who wasnt around anymore. 10 years later, the father is a Captain for emirate airlines (which im sure you all know is the most prestigious airline in the world). He does not drink or smoke. Is very athletic (used to be a personal trainer). Has been successfully married for 9 years now and has a few properties in Oakville and GTA all together. Has no criminal record and personally knowing him, is a great guy (which i know is only my opinion). On the contrary, the woman is a smoker who has been to AA meetings a few time. She lives off of welfare. Has been ordered to Anger management classes and during the last school year, send the child to school almost only HALF of the school days. The father has paid hefty prices for best lawyers and still nothing. I know it sounds like im exaggerating but i honeslty am not. These are all facts of this case and i did not leave anything out unmentioned
I didnt mean to bore you all but tihs is only the most recent case amongst many others.
So you tell me how "unbiased" our legal system is.
The woman gets everything by default and the man HAS to fight for it and in most cases ends up loosing anyways. We have a very sexist legal system who keeps with the slogans of "equality" and in practice treats women as victims no matter what the case might be.
 
Me and my wife have an agreement, if she get fat, I will leave her, and live on her street, and mingle with all the sexy women on her street.
 
My wife was a size 5 way back 11 yrs ago when we got together....she is a size 8 now and I prefer her this size. In fact I think she is hotter now. Praise J-Lo, Shakira, Rhiana etc for making the phatazz hot and popular. Ladies, be proud of that booty!

Also, I got married and made a committment. Not to only love the person I married as they are now....but to grow with them, throughout their whole life and I knew it would be work. Love isn't a feeling like hot or cold or hungry. It's a decision to make it work, even when you don't feel the same next year or next decade, as you did on your wedding night. It's work. But today, many people choose the "marriage abortion" way out, as soon as the relationship becomes more than they bargained for, or as soon as the other person doesn't measure up anymore, etc....becasue often, the work involved in staying together and working the problems out is more committment that would be convenient for today's generations.
 
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