Before anyone buys a Tacoma, find out whether they've fixed this issue:
http://www.toyotanation.com/forum/6...8781-05-toyota-tacoma-frame-failure-list.html
Personally, I wouldn't.
I know it's been stated that the height of the vehicle is an issue for the wife climbing in, but adding 4x4 to a compact pickup raises it a fair bit, so there might not be a whole lot of advantage with the compact rather than a full-size, in terms of height.
The problem with all of the compact pickups is that the segment has been allowed to wither and die, while all of the development has been applied to the full-size trucks. All of the compact pickups have outdated powertrains.
If you want something now ... probably the Ram (formerly Dodge) with the V6 and 8-speed ZF automatic is the best package. If it's too high ... there is SO much aftermarket for pickup trucks. I'm certain that there is a lowering kit for the suspension. If anything, for a bike hauler, this will make it even more practical by making it easier to load and unload.
If you can wait a little, there is a lot of new stuff coming soon.
The next generation GM trucks (available soon, 2014 MY) are going to be available with GM's next-generation direct-injection engines, and that includes the 4.3 V6 ... which is the same displacement as the old 4.3 V6 but has absolutely nothing to do with it. If the height of the truck is a problem ... install a lowering kit. The vehicle platform is new (K2XX, replacing GMT900) but it is not all *that* different.
The Ram 1500 is set to be available with the 3.0 litre V6 diesel ... no idea on price or when it will be available, but it will be 2014 model year. Same engine goes in the Grand Cherokee next year ... and I know who makes the front subframes for those, and I know the tooling is ready to go ...
The next F150 is being tooled up now, but it's a bit further into the future and Ford is keeping pretty quiet about it.
I don't know much about the Nissan Frontier other than it's really, really outdated and is a slow seller.
As for the Ridgeline ... a rather familiar historical pattern has been Honda + V6 engine + automatic transmission = kaboom, sooner or later. It is a decent vehicle but it has become dated. There's no advantage in fuel economy, even compared to the current GM full-size pickups, nevermind K2XX.