rbjeepthing
Well-known member
It wasn't directed at you or anyone specifically. I wanted to provide a real example of a case where welfare was used for it's intended purpose and had a positive effect on society. No hostility intended or felt on my part.
Case in point. This one is directed at rbjeepthing but still sans hostility. It's this type of misconception I'd like to dispell. I admire your perseverance and can identify with it (I was kicked out of my home too by my former step-father). But being a young man and watching out for #1 is a lot different than having to take care of a family. Even as a single person, not everyone has your strength. Some people can accept that they need help to stand up again.
The amount of money you get from welfare is still not enough. You can actually make more money working at Tim Hortons then you can collecting from welfare. There are plenty of community programs that will your family out. It's not easy but society's sense of entitlement these days is way to much.
You pretty much rock, but you can't take your situation as a worst-case scenario.
Be fair now, you had zero responsibilities (kids, elderly, property) and some support systems (high school, community centres). Adults, or people with family and/or belongings, they can't get away from welfare like you could, especially in rural areas. Not only that, but if all million (or whatever) welfare recipients lived like you did, there would be a whole host of other problems to deal with.
So no, there are plenty of valid 'excuses' even if there are a lot of people who are just plain lazy on welfare.
There is the "housing" thrown in. I had to sell/pawn everything I owned and start fresh. People don't like giving up things they already have because it's going to change how society views you. If you currently own a house the way I see it you can either be a mooch on the system or a swallow your pride and downsize or rent.
If you cant receive the support you think you require in your community then its time to start looking else where. Yes you are going to have to sacrifice things and if you have a family then they will as well.