The fact they can't seem to get the car "ready" seems to stem from the fact that the the salespeople really don't seem very knowledgeable with EV's. Spend some time at any EV forum and you'll soon discover this is something you need to come to expect. Seems to be no exception here. It WAS plugged in (the salesman plugged it in Saturday immediately after we left) but the circuit they plugged it into was shared with a bunch of other things - a big no no. Either the voltage sagged and the charger terminated the charge, or it tripped a breaker...never got a clear answer on that aside from the fact that when he went to check it out an hour or three after the start of his shift this afternoon, he found it still dead.
To his credit, he did take it across to the main dealership to plug into their level 2 charger, but it wasn't done by the time I got there. Again, to his credit, he called me around 7:30 and said it was still charging (despite the initial 7PM finish time that was showing on the dash when I was there at 6PM) and it was up to 35K range, so the weirdness might have had something to do with the fact it's been dead for so long. Range was still low according to the guessometer, but again, around 60K would be expected on a test drive given the ambient temps, which is why I've been insisting on seeing it fully charged. Until I actually see how far it goes on a full charge I can't assess the health of things.
As for "what did I expect", well, Yeah, in hindsight it wasn't the brightest thing for me to post all the details here, I'll admit that, but what's done is done - I didn't expect someone to try to swoop in and snatch someone elses in-progress deal out from under them.
I could be totally off base and it may not even be anyone here, but I'm left wondering based on the seeming urgency the salesperson said the other person showed.
The financial arrangements, again...personal, however, as per my first post, original plan was 12+ months out, so this is all running on a condensed timeframe now. Add in some unexpected hoops to jump through as mentioned, and here we are.