I gotta say I was surprised you went from a VFR750 to a VFR800... I know giving up the 750 wasn't by choice, of course. Having never had any seat time on either, the 800 just never seemed like the same kind of bike to me.
This is a category that I spend a lot of time looking at. My current favorite for something used is a 2013+ Fazer8. Cartridge forks, (mostly) adjustable suspension... supposedly undersprung but I am a lightweight anyway.
http://www.kijiji.ca/v-sport-bikes/city-of-toronto/2013-yamaha-fazer-8/1162375525
This is a category that I spend a lot of time looking at. My current favorite for something used is a 2013+ Fazer8. Cartridge forks, (mostly) adjustable suspension... supposedly undersprung but I am a lightweight anyway.
http://www.kijiji.ca/v-sport-bikes/city-of-toronto/2013-yamaha-fazer-8/1162375525