HOW CAN SHE SLAP?!*slap*
No penises allowed!!
I feel it's your up bringing. My parents never let me not earn something, so I've grown up buying everything for myself.A lot of men encourage this behavior. They think any woman can be bought and that is all that it takes. I wonder which is worse?
Conversely, I wonder how many men would turn down a woman is she offered money, gift and trips?
I been advised to "go for it" by all my male colleagues when I have encountered this but I would never do it. I like making my own money.
I can see if someone was always showered with gifts and what not, they might be used to receiving items without earning them.
For me personally, I am so awkward at accepting gifts because it's so foreign to me and I don't know what to say or how to act except say thank you a hundred times.