Vacations and big poppas adventures

BigEvilDoer said:
Had a relationship with a Polish girl…. She was by no means a “femal Olympic wrestler.” She was the definition of an exquisite beauty. Unfortunately, no matter what I tried, laws and situation made it impossible for her to come here…. And I shocked the **** out of a couple of immigration lawyers by finding a loophole - unfortunately it would have meant leaving he 2 year old son at home for 6 months… simply put, it didn’t happen.
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Honestly in situations like that…you go to Poland, get married, and then return and file for paperwork immediately. When you’re separated your file gets prioritized.

Or do like many that I know…fly to Canada on a visitor visa, and just never leave.

Few of my friends did that, lived here, worked, paid taxes, then got married and are all citizens now.
 
mimico_polak said:
Honestly in situations like that…you go to Poland, get married, and then return and file for paperwork immediately. When you’re separated your file gets prioritized.

Or do like many that I know…fly to Canada on a visitor visa, and just never leave.

Few of my friends did that, lived here, worked, paid taxes, then got married and are all citizens now.
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that stuff always scares me, (which is why I avoid girls escaping war torn countries(ukraine) or socialism (venezuela))
Are they into you or just using your passport/bank account?

you're supposed to just get married after knowing a girl for 2 weeks?
If its more than that, then its a long distance thing which is also tricky...
 
I would suspect for every ' it worked out awesome ' stories , there are an equal amount that then had the mom move in, found out they were sending money home to people they didnt know , and after a decade they left with half your stuff
 
This is way too real lmfao 😄 😄 😄
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Met this couple a while back, one was a hardcore shorthair lesbian, her gf looked straight and pretty, we were talking and she seemed to be into me, but her lesbian gf kept hovering around giving me dirty looks 🤣

happy pride month gtam!
 
Well last night was epic, fell in love with this amazing mexicana in cambridge, she may have ruined gringas for me...
 
In all honesty, I can't even imagine losing my wife now to divorce or anything else. We make a good team, so there's that...

Not even sure I would bother dating again if anything happened. But for now, we're good.
 
mimico_polak said:
In all honesty, I can't even imagine losing my wife now to divorce or anything else. We make a good team, so there's that...

Not even sure I would bother dating again if anything happened. But for now, we're good.
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Sometimes its cheaper to keep them then to divorce them.

Not speaking from experience but just tales from the grape wine.
 
most divorces are initiated by women, so there is that.

(or so I hear)
 
ifiddles said:
Unless the husband cheats, then it's him that initiated the divorce, regardless of who filed...
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Different men have difference definitions of cheating.
Not that any of them are acceptable.
 
oioioi said:
Different men have difference definitions of cheating.
Not that any of them are acceptable.
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I like Bill Clinton’s definition.
 
In my close circle of 7 couples , only two of us are on starter spouses and of the 5 on do overs 3 were initiated directly by the guys . No cheating , they just couldn’t fathom the next 30? Yrs with that partner. Always 3 sides to a story .


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crankcall said:
In my close circle of 7 couples , only two of us are on starter spouses and of the 5 on do overs 3 were initiated directly by the guys . No cheating , they just couldn’t fathom the next 30? Yrs with that partner. Always 3 sides to a story .


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Yup. Always 3 sides.

Mine. Yours. And the truth somewhere in between.
 
In the real world there’s no such thing as black and white, whole lotta grey.
 
Well, to be truthful, in the end there really is black & white in most cases but what people see are a whole lotta grey.

Many people I've known have had what I like to call a warped sense of reality (ex-wife included). Objectively, that was a definite "black" but you convince yourself it's "grey" if it makes you live with yourself.

It sounds like you're in a dating phase ... prepare yourself for that.
 
LBV said:
Well, to be truthful, in the end there really is black & white in most cases but what people see are a whole lotta grey.

Many people I've known have had what I like to call a warped sense of reality (ex-wife included). Objectively, that was a definite "black" but you convince yourself it's "grey" if it makes you live with yourself.

It sounds like you're in a dating phase ... prepare yourself for that.
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Humans are really good at justifying their 'black' options to themselves. Seen it time and again.

'I didn't cheat, but my wife wasn't doing ABC so it's HER fault'. Same goes the other way.

It's never a simple answer, especially when others and emotions are involved.
 
Met this gal she’s seems to dig big poppa, 99% sure she’s a stripper, should probably steer clear, si?
 
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