The other dooshee thing to do is line up a new guy (monkey branch) before the old guy even has any idea you're unhappy and fixing to leave. This could take a year or two. Whatever it takes. It's a jungle out there. I've been the prospective new guy a few times. Job, home owner and sober is pretty much all it takes. No thanks, I like my toys, money, dignity and sanity.
Years ago a buddy of mine charged his live in girlfriend a nominal monthly fee to help "cover expenses". As expected, the relationship eventually collapsed under a heavy load of drama. So she made some noises about common law cashing out. Well, what he had done (he's Jewish) is open a bank savings account and made monthly deposits in the exact amount she paid monthly. He showed her the pass book and said "you were a boarder and here's the proof". No common law for you. Goodbye.