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Share of people with no sex in the past year
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That’s the old school terminology, they changed it a while ago to STI - sexually transmitted infection.
Apparently “infection” sounds better and is less offensive than “disease”.
I'm gonna expand on this because I don't care if I piss people off, and I have friends going through this between the 25-30 age group.
First, you're very right. I thought the non-binary thing was a joke, and it is for women not fully assimilated into North American culture (Asians, South Asians, and Russians come to mind, as we can talk about this stuff behind closed doors, and laugh our ass off.)
While my Asian fob group has never had problems, the two white guys I know who don't date Asian women have told me the most ridiculous non-binary stories that are unbelievable. A non-binary identifying human with a vagina had sex with a friend, then had post nut regret. I near spat vodka out of my nose when I heard this (it really hurt.) I never knew people with vaginas could get post nut regret but apparently "she" left him with blue balls.
While the above is humorous, said buddies report many dates attracting women who are very heavy on political stances, intolerant, and think they are entitled to a guy with a 6 figure salary when they work as a cashier. Obviously, nobody wants to stick their dick in crazy once they've done it enough times.
When the above is coupled with the more extreme incel movement to the more grounded viewpoints of this dude Better Bachelor, a pattern emerges:
- Many North American women truly believe they are entitled to the top guys
- Both mentioned buddies are in the top 10% income wise
- The amount of "crazies" are multiplying due to the focus on individualism
- A noticeable amount of men, who are deciding to be childless, have given up on relationships
- Look at Better Bachelor as a good example
Tongue in cheek for all of the above with a bit of disturbing reality in it! Don't take it too seriously (unless you happen to be single and bitching as much as my two buddies are lol)
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Roadghost
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I've watched Better Bachelor a couple of times and I get the impression he's a misogynist. He seems to blame everything on women. Also, sure young women are idealistic, but so are young men. A lot of these guys want a virgin who looks like a porn star. Anyway, I think this needs some serious sociological study. The real culprit here is idealism, the unrelenting search for perfection. In the case of women, any good looking, moneyed, football size male is happy to oblige a harem of different women, then walk out the door with the box of chocolates laughing after he scored. Sooner or later reality and the time clock steers women toward realism. I think a lot of guys would rather do without than settle for something they don't want. I don't see a solution.
Really glad we can have a discussion about this here without somebody wanting to stab another (seriously, try this on Reddit for an echo chamber of "**** you" lol)
I think Better Bachelor is pretty close to a misogynist (considering he's lost all hope) but his viewpoints aren't entirely off as there is a vocal minority of women who do match what he's arguing about.
Also, I'm seeing the bold in what you're saying between both sexes.
We tend to attract those who are similar to us as friends. My fiancee has friends just like her: stayed single until they got their degrees, hyper successful, and all way too innocent. The problem is more than 75% of them failed to find a partner after graduation. Women also won't date down. And now they can't find a guy that isn't a complete **** up (makes significantly less, no ambition, etc. etc.)
Btw, as for the virgin porn star thing.....I think the trend is equal on both sides: the body of Captain America/Black Widow, the brains of Tony Stark/Oracle [Batman], and a bed time attitude that rivals Harley Quinn/Joker.
Mad Mike
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Sooner or later millennials will need start replicating themselves sooner or later.
As a voting demographic millennial generation inherited political control around 2015. In 25 next years they will move into their parents positions and become the the core source of taxpayer revenue for govt's.
But there might be some striking differences. They will inherit crippling levels of public debt. They will have a huge Boomer and X generation population weighing heavy on the social system. It looks like they may have a small trailing generation, so their contributions to the public purse may also get heavier and go on for longer.
As a voting demographic millennial generation inherited political control around 2015. In 25 next years they will move into their parents positions and become the the core source of taxpayer revenue for govt's.
But there might be some striking differences. They will inherit crippling levels of public debt. They will have a huge Boomer and X generation population weighing heavy on the social system. It looks like they may have a small trailing generation, so their contributions to the public purse may also get heavier and go on for longer.
bigpoppa
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#1 is HEAVILY skewed by geography, its been a minute since big poppa was in the dating game but there were a lot of sex in the city clones walking around the metropolitan areas, though I suppose now days its a bunch of Kardashian clones? Who knows what they want? Black athletes/musicians?
Canada is a vast country, true most of the work is around big cities but girls in Saskatchewan or the Maritimes think a lot differently than girls in toronto/vancouver/montreal
as far as #2 the focus on individualism, this is a very western way of thinking. Other cultures(not just china) are not like this:
As for better bachelor, it sounds like a soap opera, and im not really into that
I work with a guy who's millenial unemployable ( for a wad of reasons) son found a gamer girlfriend about 4 yrs ago at a comicon Niagara gathering , while performing some mystical ritual he managed to put her in the family way and now they live as a couple with "Indigo Pink" the daughter in dadas basement.
you need a license to ride a motorbike, just a comicon pass to ride a purple haired unicorn warrior maiden ( that is how she identifies) , non binary could be better
you need a license to ride a motorbike, just a comicon pass to ride a purple haired unicorn warrior maiden ( that is how she identifies) , non binary could be better
So, just so you know...of those 30 replies.
- 15 will start talking you up, send hot pictures of themselves, chat with you a lot, tell you all about their lives and "open up" to you while you do the same in return, but a few weeks in they just need some money to help with a critically ill family member or something. Can you please help them out? They'll promise to pay you back. In other words, they're scammers.
- 9 may be actual legitimate ladies but will fall off the face of the planet when they get to know you better and learn you aren't independently wealthy, don't have a huge house or a Ferrari in the garage, and that you have a two-four instead of a six-pack. Or that you have baggage in the form of kids or something. In other words, a sugar daddy you are not.
- 4 will chat you up, send (fake) pics and are looking for you to send them dick pics back. Then they'll try to extort you for some bitcoin under threat of sending your dick pics to all your friends.
- 1 is actually a man who really liked your beard and will show up for your first date trying to hide their Adams Apple.
- 1 is an actual legit lady looking for a guy like you.
Anyhow, I'm joking to some extent, but don't for a second think all 30 of those responses are legitimate.
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So, just so you know...of those 30 replies.
- 15 will start talking you up, send hot pictures of themselves, chat with you a lot, tell you all about their lives and "open up" to you while you do the same in return, but a few weeks in they just need some money to help with a critically ill family member or something. Can you please help them out? They'll promise to pay you back. In other words, they're scammers.
- 9 may be actual legitimate ladies but will fall off the face of the planet when they get to know you better and learn you aren't independently wealthy, don't have a huge house or a Ferrari in the garage, and that you have a two-four instead of a six-pack. Or that you have baggage in the form of kids or something. In other words, a sugar daddy you are not.
- 4 will chat you up, send (fake) pics and are looking for you to send them dick pics back. Then they'll try to extort you for some bitcoin under thread of sending your dick pics to all your friends.
- 1 is actually a man who really liked your beard and will show up for your first date trying to hide their Adams Apple.
- 1 is an actual legit lady looking for a guy like you.
Anyhow, I'm joking to some extent, but don't for a second think all 30 of those responses are legitimate.
You forgot the bots lol
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**** that guy got jackpot! Lol
As a race, we are rapidly reaching the end of that evolutionary cul-de-sac.
Priller
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I'm hardly an expert on the subject, but everything I've read pegs prosperity as the catalyst. This is shown in countries where the poorer communities still have high birth rates but the wealthy have far fewer children. The wealthy aren't worried about making ends meet due to a high cost of living, but still have smaller families.
The theories as to why cover a lot of different fields, from biology (lower sperm count due to instinctively feeling less pressure to keep spare progeny due to higher survival rate), to social (we live more self-involved lives, seeing children as hindrances to our personal quality of life; in other words, we're a bunch of narcissists) to economic (greater pressure to accrue wealth discourages children as impediments to 'success'; poverty often involves a hand to mouth existence where the free labour provided by children can produce more than it costs).
I wrote something different here, but it came across as more generational bashing, which wasn't the intent.
That said, I do have a pet theory about many young 'men' who grew up playing video games in latter years (i.e. after most games stopped being difficult). They've been conditioned by a lifetime of playing games carefully constructed to drip feed a steady dose of positive feedback, and expect similar results in the rest of their lives. When that suddenly disappears in the real world, they start pointing the finger of blame, unable to process the inability to be in a state of constant nirvana. When women don't dispense sex after selecting the correct conversation responses (as per an RPG conversation tree), it can't possibly be their fault.
Add treating women as transactional objects (I give you d**k pic, you give me sex; I give you obsequiousness and call it 'being nice', you give me girlfriend), which most younger, more independent women can find extremely off-putting, and a general lack of ability to push through difficulty, and you get what you get. They can moan about women being impossible to please, but never look in the mirror.
Obviously, 'not all men', etc. But certainly enough to make a big swing in the OP's graph.
(Also, when I hear women just want someone making big money, I usually hear that as an excuse. Most women are interested in a guy with an average pay packet if they like and are attracted to them. No bums, but not everybody needs to be a doctor, either. Shame this place is such a sausage party, would be interesting to hear from women on this...)
I'll agree not all women want/need a huge wage earner. It may be cultural, given the option out of the gate, to date an earner vs a liability not many would choose the later on purpose.
But there are those women that date serial losers , drunks and perpetually unemployed . And that may be a mental state on the women's end.
I had a few friends do the mid life e- dating scene , the general pattern seemed to be many that had problems meeting suitable candidates , just had problems.
Its one thing to get through a 1.5hr dinner with a new person, its quite another to want to spend a weekend with them.
( I sell plywood for a living, the advice you receive here is worth what you are paying for it)
But there are those women that date serial losers , drunks and perpetually unemployed . And that may be a mental state on the women's end.
I had a few friends do the mid life e- dating scene , the general pattern seemed to be many that had problems meeting suitable candidates , just had problems.
Its one thing to get through a 1.5hr dinner with a new person, its quite another to want to spend a weekend with them.
( I sell plywood for a living, the advice you receive here is worth what you are paying for it)
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Kind of hard to do the deeed living at home in your mid-20s
Lot of variables there. MIL has lived with us a few years now, I assume she doesn't believe both our kids are the result of immaculate conception.Kind of hard to do the deeed living at home in your mid-20s
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Yup for sure. My Asian parents separated my partner and I. Also, they would walk into both bedrooms at random times of the day without knocking.
Another time, I had to hide in the closet because her dad walked downstairs and HE KNEW. Made a comment about how he saw my car blah blah
^_^
It was too much work ;(
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Kind of hard to do the deeed living at home in your mid-20s
No it isn't. You're Asian. It's culturally acceptable for a guy to bring as many girls as they want home and the dad'll give you a high five.
If a girl does it though, she's getting disowned lol
...or maybe this is a HK and Taiwan thing lol
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LOL your parents must not have been religiouss
Going slightly back on topic. I know this guy is hated by many, but holy **** there's so much truth here.
I think this is another huge reason why. Massive exceptions go to powerful women; I know more powerful women (STEM degrees, highly educated, six figure or close yearly earnings) than not, but the echo chamber on Reddit (aka. the popular opinion) is not from those type of women.
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