I have been reading this thread and it is really fascinating. Personal too since I took my kid on the cycle yesterday for a spin. Lots of opinions being thrown around. Lots of attitude too. Amazing that motorcyclists (who are on a motorcyclist forum) are so absolutist on what is 'dangerous'. I'm sorry but that is funny.
Are motorcycles dangerous: damn straight they are! But so is driving a cage, riding a bicycle, crossing the street or lighting a BBQ.
It seems to me that the issue with both kids on motorcycles and motorcycles in general is the definition of 'dangerous'. Everybody has a definition of 'dangerous' that is so obvious to them that it does not need to be explained: "I don't have to respect your definition because mine is so obviously correct."
for example, if I ride a bicycle to work downtown I am being 'green', healthy, socially conscious, community minded, etc. No one ever talks about the danger. However, if I ride a motorcycle, I am being a lunatic, self centered, danger seeking, maniac. All they talk about is the danger. The difference of perspective boils down to the difference between A) If I get hit on my bicycle, it was the idiot cager's fault, and B) if I am hit on my motorcycle, it was my fault for being stupid enough to ride amongst the idiot cagers in the first place.
(The fact is that if you are wearing the same protective clothing and you get hit by a cage on either a bike or a cycle, you will be hurt. How much depends on the particulars of how you were hit, and what you were wearing. I got hit by a drunk doing 120 when I was doing 10 and I walked away. If I was in my car I would have been crushed. Does that make me safe or dangerous? no, it makes me lucky) Therefore blame is apportioned not based on my behaviour but rather on what you think is dangerous.
If you ask my definition, life is dangerous. Plain and simple. You can do everything right and still have things turn out bad. It's how you approach danger is that is the key.
As for children: rather than avoiding all danger, what we need to do is teach our kids how to handle danger. I know the knife is sharp but my kids don't. How do I teach them? Lots of ways and each one has it's own risk/reward.
I have adopted the attitude with my kids that it is better for them to learn from a dynamic approach rather than an absolutist rule WHEN they are in a position to learn from the situation. But that is a judgment call; each parent has to make that choice. Just because we make different choices doesn't mean that one of us is wrong.
** Side note; my 8 year old just came up to me and told me that somebody on Moshi Monsters asked for her email and she hit ignore. We have been going over internet safety recently and my attitude is that it is better for them to learn how to be safe rather than trying to keep them away from danger.
As for me and the cycle and my daughter, I went out a bought a Snell helmet, Tourmaster Jett youth jacket, gloves, boots and knee/shin guards. I also put my turtleback on her (jacket fits better). Cost me an arm and a leg. Is someone going to call me an idiot? yes. Is she 'safe'??? I don't know what that means but I do know that she is safer than without it and she gives me **** if I don't go out ATGATT. (Did you all know that there are NO riding pants for kids. Dirtbike yes, but no street pants for kids. Kinda stupid that it is legal for a kid to ride and there are no riding pants.) Is she learning to deal with danger? yes.
(Did you see my friend who was saved by his gear:
http://www.gtamotorcycle.com/vbforum/showthread.php?143337-ATGATT-...under-unusual-circumstances )
Sorry for the lecture. I really should be out there riding. As for the cop, well maybe he made a decision as a parent rather than as a cop. The point is that he made a decision and you can't fault a guy for that.
Feel free to flame me