Have you paid a babysitter lately? We are normally giving them $100. Higher minimum wage really jacked up the price of babysitters.
It's not remotely $3000 a month. A good retirement home with food, lodging and activities but very little medical care is $5000 a month or more. Add medical care on top of that. How many hours of care should a patient have? Right now they are allotted minutes. If you think two hours a day is reasonable (dressing, feeding, exercise, bathrooms, etc so that seems plausible), that means each resident needs to pick up about 30% of the cost of a PSW (they need some time for paperwork/showering after they get puke or &*^*^ on them). At $80 an hour, that is over $4000 a month. We don't have nurses, doctors, nutritionists, hair cutting, physio etc in there yet. So close to $10K per month per resident for reasonable treatment is likely. A family friend had a solid nest egg and support from family but she had to move into a nursing home after less than 10 years in a retirement home at $60K a year (plus hair plus physio plus plus plus).