Just get yourselves fixed.
The many benefits include:
1) No mini van needed.
2) No drooling money suckers to ruin your fun for 20 years.
3) No pre-mature aging when they get knocked up by a Cambodian gang member or arrested when they steal their first car.
The downside:
1) Nobody to force you into a nursing home and spend all your money.
2) No contribution to the overpopulation of the planet.
Just get yourselves fixed.
The many benefits include:
1) No mini van needed.
2) No drooling money suckers to ruin your fun for 20 years.
3) No pre-mature aging when they get knocked up by a Cambodian gang member or arrested when they steal their first car.
The downside:
1) Nobody to force you into a nursing home and spend all your money.
2) No contribution to the overpopulation of the planet.
Darren, Darren, Darren....I'm sure (or, I hope) that your post is laced with more than a hint of irony. I shared many of those sentiments up until the age of 40 or so. I didn't marry until 42 and had our son at 45. I couldn't be more convinced that becoming a father is the best thing that has happened in my life. Maybe you're young, although I will admit parenthood isn't for everyone....
This is sad, although it hints a little of lack of planning/foresight.
On the minivan front, I'm 28 and have no kids, and I kinda want one! I used to borrow my folks' van to go skiing and mountain biking all the time. Apart from the way it drives (Chev Venture, meh), and looking like a soccer mom, and a little bit of extra gas, I think it's the cat's ***.
SUV's have nowhere near the room inside, and apples-to-apples sell for a lot more. I could take the ego hit.
Hope to keep at least one motorbike around when I get married and eventually have kids. I want a classic bike someday - maybe keep that one around? I think that getting out and clearing my head will be even more important then.
Darren, Darren, Darren....I'm sure (or, I hope) that your post is laced with more than a hint of irony. I shared many of those sentiments up until the age of 40 or so. I didn't marry until 42 and had our son at 45. I couldn't be more convinced that becoming a father is the best thing that has happened in my life. Maybe you're young, although I will admit parenthood isn't for everyone....
If you knew me you would know I see things in an empathic fashion but I convey a sarcastic devils advocate style of banter. Always meant in a joking tone.
42 here and no kids planned, but I of course don't have any negative feelings towards parenthood and quite like some of them.
As for it being the best thing in your life, that's your paternal instinct talking. You're programmed to feel that way.
I told the GF, if we need to get a family car, I'm getting the C63 AMG Wagon. She said fine, but then she has to get the CLS AMG. Then I was like, WTH, why do I get the crappier car? She just laughed. :-(
Nobody needs a Mini Van for two kids.
Nobody needs it for one kid.
I have two kids and have two CARS.
I just laugh and laugh when my friends buy Mini vans.
If it don't fit in the car, it aint going. That simple.
Besides, most people who own mini vans cannot even begin how to park them.
I hate seeing people taking up a spot and a quarter in the shopping mall.
They just don't care to take the time to park properly.
I hear that constantly from others (usually married guys)... telling me the bike is on the way out... my wife and I have never even spoken about selling the bike (unless its to buy another bike), It must be stifling in that kind of relationship.
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