In my case it was support her and stand by no matter what. Encouraged her to follow her dreams. Risked it all about 9 years ago and bought the place she worked at for 8 years, even though if it had failed it would have meant bankruptcy. Quit my decent paying job a few years after that and I've worked with her full time since. We've made some good moves over the years and started another business together a little over a year ago. It all took time, but those decisions have set us up nicely for the foreseeable future and have already set us up nicely for whenever we decide to stop working - still 20-25 years away, but still.
And yes, don't be afraid to do the cooking and the cleaning!
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