Although this is part of the issue with people trying to retrofit old cars designed for halogen with LED bulbs, I find that it's actually just a lot of modern vehicles now as well, particularly SUV's and pickup trucks. The issue is that many of these new vehicles ride so stupidly high to begin with that the headlights are sometimes 3-4 feet in the air already, so if you're driving any normally sized vehicle, you almost miss the beam cutoff. If the vehicle is across from you in an intersection with a little upward slope vs where you're sitting, it can literally be like they have their high-beams on. I'm not sure there's a solution to this aside from North America getting away from land-yacht vehicles being the norm, but I'm not going to hold out much hope of that happening. The only other solution is aiming headlights lower, but then you lose the "I want to be able to see 1km ahead of me" aspect that many people like now.
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