Excited for you! I hope to take a longer camping trip as well this year.
Since my incident with leaks in the inflatable sleeping pads during my last trip, I'm reconsidering sleeping pad options but the inflatables pack up so small and are so comfortable.
I found this gas stove to be super compact. It's not the most stable and I have accidently knocked off my pot on a few occasions but it's small and works well. The fuel for this can also be used for the Thermacell Backpacker.
I do have a Firebox stove which I've used a few times but the gas stove is much more user friendly and you don't have to deal with all the soot.