This has been a very interesting discussion to follow. How many of our decisions are also based a bit on culture, ethnicity and back stories? With my parents it was pretty much a 'given' that people that didnt own homes lacked responsibitity and renters were somewhat lesser achievers. No facts behind it at all, thats just how my family thought about things.
Partly because owning property in the old country was hard at the time, estate was considered success.
It formed my opinion that rent was money wasted, at that time.
I also had no clue growing up on a farm that regular people could travel the world, work part time to top up the travel fund, own vacation homes, motorcycles like the ones in magazines, not beaters, or yachts.
Stuff I wish somebody told me was possible when I was 10
I grew up with a lot of "What for's"
It's OK to be frugal but at some point you have to shift gears to really get going. People die in their eighties with millions in the bank that they were saving for their old age. Be realistic with how much money you have to hoard. It's just expensive toilet paper.