A subsequent encounter,
I agree, I didn't get that either
A subsequent encounter,
That story plays out differently in my head.
She wanted a job. She would've ****ed him for it but it turned out that he played too rough for her, so she voluntarily blew him instead. She then accepted a job interview.
Now its 'rape' though.
depends, if it leaves bruises yes
if it's just a squishy feel, and unwelcome, it's sexual assault
Like she said, she wanted to break into broadcasting and he took advantage of his position.
How is this different from a professor suggesting that his student offer up sex if she wants a passing grade
See, taking advantage of their position
I agree, I didn't get that either
learn how to smack a girl in the *** the way she likes it would'ya?So if a girl asks you to smack her *** and you do it, it leaves a bruise its now assault?
Probably not offered straight out for sex, but when he's offered to talk to his producers and then he comes on to you, doesn't mean he didn't take advantage of his position. And she was very upfront about saying she wanted to work with him.But he never offered to get her a job for sex, he asked her out, banged her and AFTER that he said ill see what i can do for you.
She used him to get ahead in life
I would agree that it wasn't rape, but it was assaultAnd that's what leads me to believe that one wasn't rape, but instead it went down like mmmnaked suggested
learn how to smack a girl in the *** the way she likes it would'ya?
Probably not offered straight out for sex, but when he's offered to talk to his producers and then he comes on to you, doesn't mean he didn't take advantage of his position. And she was very upfront about saying she wanted to work with him.
There's another
http://www.cbc.ca/m/news/canada/new...dly-choked-beat-n-b-woman-with-belt-1.2818879
Then he removed the belt and started beating her on the back with it, she said.
She says she didn't say anything to Ghomeshi.
"I was in so much shock — and I’ve heard this from other women who are speaking as well — I did not know what to say. It totally threw me for a loop. I was speechless," she recalled.
The alleged incident, which she says lasted about 30 minutes, only ended after they ended up having intercourse, she said.
Afterwards, she says Ghomeshi was "nice and friendly and normal again," so she stayed the night.
So was she sexually assaulted but then ok with it because he was nice after, so she spent the night anyway...? Meh.
So why call it rape then? Just call the guy a ****** bag, and call her a prostitute cause thats what she was basically doing
So from a legal perspective, while its persuasive that 9 women have come forward with similar allegations, I can see how this would fall apart if tested in court. Unfortunately if someone were to go to the police, the charge needs to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt. That standard of proof is extremely high, as well as the burden of proof is solely on the victims
So basically the defence lawyer will slut shame the victim, ask how many people she's slept with, and if she had a brazilian wax before meeting up with the perpetrator, all this while the perpetrator sits there and enjoys watching the victim be victimized AGAIN
This is why the system is a joke, and women don't come forward
So from a legal perspective, while its persuasive that 9 women have come forward with similar allegations, I can see how this would fall apart if tested in court. Unfortunately if someone were to go to the police, the charge needs to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt. That standard of proof is extremely high, as well as the burden of proof is solely on the victims
So basically the defence lawyer will slut shame the victim, ask how many people she's slept with, and if she had a brazilian wax before meeting up with the perpetrator, all this while the perpetrator sits there and enjoys watching the victim be victimized AGAIN
This is why the system is a joke, and women don't come forward
The system is just fine. I think some women need to rethink their positions on this whole rape thing. It's a VERY serious allegation for a very serious crime.
If you have to think really hard about whether you were actually raped .. you weren't .
oh please why is she a prostitute??? Men have been using women for sex for YEARS...YEARS. And your slut shaming women???
I didn't call it rape, I called it assault
I'm going to bed, it's 1AM
So from a legal perspective, while its persuasive that 9 women have come forward with similar allegations, I can see how this would fall apart if tested in court. Unfortunately if someone were to go to the police, the charge needs to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt. That standard of proof is extremely high, as well as the burden of proof is solely on the victims
So basically the defence lawyer will slut shame the victim, ask how many people she's slept with, and if she had a brazilian wax before meeting up with the perpetrator, all this while the perpetrator sits there and enjoys watching the victim be victimized AGAIN
This is why the system is a joke, and women don't come forward
Are you really this stupid or just trolling. You know nothing about rape and how people react to it. Your posts are insulting to women, but worse are the reason most women don't come forward, because some how ******** try to blame them. This isn't a joke and you should stfu.But she didn't, then shows up to the interview? wtf?
And who gives a guy a blow job "just to get out of there"? am i the only one who thinks this whole situation is beyond words?
and a question ive always wondered .... wouldnt you fight until death or unconsciousness before rape ? i would
This isn't in relation to the Ghomeshi story, just in general, but I disagree. I think we have created a climate of victimhood that many people are only too happy to embrace. Got a bad mark? The teacher doesn't like you. Didn't get the promotion? That jerk who has the boss' ear blocked you. Lost the election? Misogyny and racism. And the media panders to it because they encourage people to come to them with their stories rather than seek redress on their own or through legal channels. It fills pages with fodder readers lap up and is easier and cheaper than actually researching a real story....but mostly, no one wants to think of themselves as a victim