I thought cycling was stupid. I got curious because my wife was into it for a bit.
I have 2 kids, had to get them (by bike) to daycare and then school bus stop in the mornings and then go to the office by bicycle (otherwise it was motorcycle or public transit) while wifey took the car to the train station and took the train to work downtown.
I was an overweight dude, who hadn't ridden a bicycle in probably 10-15 years. Yes i was relatively active (i'd do a spartan race once or twice a year and did nothing the rest of the year) so I started step by step, but at first riding from sauga to downtown was quite the trek. 23km each way.
Eventually it got easier, and eventually i actually started enjoying it. Until the pandemic that is.
I met some people at my work who did the same from Oakville and even Burlington. Gotta be honest, they were fitter than me though. The reason people aren't doing it more is partly because it's VERY intimidating to ride next to cars and roads are currently the most efficent/short way to get to places on a bicycle. My motorcycle experience made it a walk in the park to be "naked" in the middle of traffic, but for the common mortal, it sounds like a madman's journey. If you put good intuitive infrastructure in (emphasis on good & intuitive), people will use it. Not half assed infrastructure that dumps you in the middle of nowhere and where have to fend for yourself/figure out your way in the middle of rush hour traffic. I mean you want something that would be comfortable enough for an 12 y-old to take without being scared for their life.
I completely agree that a bunch of people cannot realistically take their bicycle whether it be due to work requirements or schedules. But there's a ******** of people who could do it and that's who we need to focus on. Make it viable for the people who can; not an extreme sport that feels like you're endangering your life every time. Amsterdam was, at one point a very car-centric society in the 70s if i remember well and they decided to make drastic changes. Montreal has made major changes recently to have some "bicycle highways". It's not that it's not possible, it's that it's not a priority.
In winter i take public transportation because i don't own a bike that can do the winter commute and besides, the infrastructure is not in place for that to be done easily from where i live to where i work. But there are places that make it a priority with real winters unlike what we have in Toronto. As traffic gets worse year afteryear, those concessions (whether it be for public transit or cycling) are the only things that will keep traffic moving. Better act now before it gets worse.
When I was in high school which was before cars had coffee holders and especially phones I thought nothing of taking highway 2 to Niagara Falls from west Toronto. Today, not on my life because of drivers sipping, munching, talking and texting. What? Texting is illegal?
Nothing is being done about driver training, DUI bikes, lane hogs or crappy roads etc. Until those issues are resolved I see little hope for us emulating the Netherlands with bike usage.