For me the decision was made for the wife to quit job and stay home and raise the kids was for reasons other than financial.I just hated putting a 1 to 2 month old in a freezing cold car in the winter making trek from orangeville at the time and felt the risk was too great and looking back was the right thing. I also could not see myself leaving my kids with a sitter or daycare who in reality have no interest in the outcome of the children I am not saying all are bad but if even 2% are thats enough for me.
Amen to that. I can't even begin to imagine leaving my little dude at a daycare, he's 10 months old. Couldn't do it, not a chance. We're lucky in that my wife chooses her own hours and works from home. When she's super busy, the grandmas can come and hang out to lighten the load from time to time. Couldn't have wished for a better outcome. It's not even about the daycare money - I'd gladly quit working to stay at home with the kid(s).