Why is it "best" to pay it off asap? I'll argue that when interest rates are this low, and you're not extremely risk-averse, it's best to borrow MORE
Not sure about rushing to borrow more, but I would disagree with rushing to pay off your mortgage, despite the fact we've been a bit agressive with ours.
Interest rates are at historic lows - mortgages are cheap right now. It wasn't that many years ago this wasn't the case - our first mortgage was 6.35% in Y2K when we bought our house, but now we are paying 2.1% on our last 21 months before we are free and clear.
We've been agressive, but not so much that we aren't saving money in our RRSP's either. Sure, we could dump that money against the mortgage as well and we'd probably have been paid off a few years ago vs another 2 years out, but...with interest rates so low it made more money sense to contribute to our RRSP's vs directing that to the mortgage instead. Had interest rates on our mortgage still been 6%, trust me, we'd have done it the other way around.
I'm not saying that it's bad to be ahead of the curve and be somewhat aggressive with your mortgage (which comes full circle to buying a cheaper house than what the bank is willing to let you buy), but with low interest rates one must consider directing some of that money towards retirement instead - it makes sense in the world of ~2% interest rates.
part two, if you dont want live $200. bucks out, dont marry a dum dum. Get a partner that's gainfully employed, has the ambition to stay employed
Have to agree, yeah...this is part of the equation - a single income household isn't realistic anymore, that I'll agree with, but pick your partner carefully - same goes for both men and women. Getting into a relationship with someone who is satisfied working part time at KFC as their lifelong career ambition, or worse yet..just can't be bothered by that pesky "working" thing at all isn't going to lead to the same success as two hard workers with careers in mind, and hopefully some post secondary education as well to help with the earning potential. Of course, if one spouse is a HUGE earner and the family lives comfortably on that single income this doesn't apply...but then again, neither does this whole discussion at that point.