I was there Saturday for my first track day and have no complaints at all. Yes the riders meeting was late, but considering the circumstances they did the best they could. First track day of the year for them, dog **** on the track, drag strip completely packed, riders showing up at 8:15 searching for a spot to pit and get through tech before the riders meeting, they did what they could do to accommodate everyone.
It being my first track day, I don't know the length of a typical riders meeting, but give me a break. The riders meeting is the riders meeting, show up listen its for your safety so you or anyone else don't get seriously injured. As someone mentioned, every organization does it slightly different, every track day has new riders (me) who have never heard the rules before, deal with it.
As for the organizers being rude, I really hope you addressed it in person before ranting on a message board... Were all adults, if you have an issue with someone, take it up with that person, in person, you might even get a "sorry for hurting your feelings" which it appears you are searching for. I've delt with Chris since I got into motorcycling, he got me into the track days, helped me find my bike, answered every question I had and never steered me wrong. He's straight forward and up front, never had an issue at all. Hell he even came out in one of my beginner sessions and did a 1 on 1 training session showing me lines and offering advice about what I can do different, completely changed my riding on that track.
Tech inspection being too tight? Common, do you really want to be out on the track with a tech inspector who just lets things slide to speed up the day? You say he was sending people back to fix small things, did he send you back? What were the small things? Again, its for your safety and others around you. I can't understand how that can be a bad thing? Again with the rude thing too, I hope you addressed that with him in person.
The crash was a crash, the guy was seriously injured, I was on track coming around the last corner after the track exit when the worker at the corner was waving the red flag furiously so I still had to finish the full lap. I was out there with Chris when it happened and when driving by the guy on the track, it did not look good, he had some blood spots on the inside padding of his helmet and was not looking too good. I know if you were in that situation you wouldn't tell them just toss me in the track ambulance so everyone can get back out on the track. Have some consideration for others.
All in all, I had a great day, not a complaint at all. If you don't like the rules, I agree with what they told you, don't come back. If you don't like the way it was ran, I agree again, don't come back. Or hey, you run the next one....