If someone owes you money, simply ask for it and if they refuse then take legal action.
It is not very classy of you to keep putting your/his private matters on an open forum, seems very Jerry Springer like.
I actually give Jamie props for taking the high road and not stooping to your level.
Whether he actually owes you anything or not, we'll never know.
Stop trying to make people feel sorry for you, it's lame.
You made a mistake, deal with the consequences.
Sorry if I sound harsh, I'm just calling it how I see it.