It's a problem when you have to lie to yourself that she's not a man. Loving an illusion never ends well.
But they're really not anymore. I know a bit about this subject and one of the things I know is that brain scans show that after a certain amount of time their brains have changed too. So, if they look the way they like and their brains have changed in conformation they're really actually not a man. They can't have kids true and this might be a deal breaker, but the rest of it no.