Sheer pin normally wouldn't have that much thread on the end unless it's the incorrect size. That's why it looks like a regular bolt. Nut or clip end doesn't matter. It's the length (so sheer section is in correct spot) and width.
Yes, having the wrong sheer pin or bolt is like having none. Look up the catalogue number of the OEM one and find its spec, or maybe you still have an OEM one. Then order or take the sample to CT or Amazon to order replacements and always have a few spares on hand