I've got a 2007 with nearly 50,000km and have been happy since day one.
Valve checks are expensive, but not $1600! I was seeking prices many km ago but ended up not needing them done. I'm going to take it in to Honda at the end of this season for another check, hopefully I don't get a surprise! The bike hasn't cost a cent at a shop yet, I've done all the maintenance myself so far and nothing has been too difficult to do on the driveway. It's a complicated motor, but regular wear items (brakes/fluids/chain adjust/light bulbs/washing!! etc...) are as easy -or in a few cases easier- than any other bike.
I can go chase SSs on country roads one day, then take the wife for ice cream in comfort the next, tape up the lights and have some fun on a track day and then go ride down to Tenn. the next week.... all on the same bike! It's not outstanding at any one particular task but it does them all quite well.
Also, don't get hung up on the negativity about the VTEC your bound to hear, I haven't had any issues going in or out of it yet, I haven't highsided, lowsided or been blown up by having it engage in a corner....
Like it was mentioned though, if you get one GET ONE WITH THE BAGS! This is my only regret, they are way too expensive to buy after.
Negative for the bike is weight.... I live on a hill and its a royal PITA to push around. I think Honda welds 50lbs of lead to the bottom of each VFR!
Happy bike hunting Chimera!