Valentines Day - mutual or just for women?

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FullMotoJacket said:
Apparently men and women are the same when they're embryos or something. I read that somewhere today. Seems a hell of a lot more relevant here. LOL
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Tehehe awe you did absorb my useless fact.

Roasted said:
Sorry, but no one deserves to get cheated on. I don't give a **** if you've been mistreated, neglected, etc. If you don't like your partner you get out of your current relationship and bang whoever you want but if you cheat while in a committed relationship, you are scum, period!
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+ there are no numbers big enough...

rafiki911 said:
I ment why do we get cheesy Vday and you guys get the steak and bj day? Why should have the Lobster and 69 day or something like that.
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It should be catered to the one whom you are showing affection for. To just go with chocolate to every girl you date = fail, but if you are so lucky that they all love chocolate then its a win BUT its not using any creativity.

And to me I make it a point to show my feelings often. I try to let Gilligan know on a regular basis how much I appreciate and respect him and how much he means to me. Valentines day is just a day to kick it up a notch and make it special. And to me its mutual. Its for both genders.
 
crankcall said:
Your absolutely correct, no one deserves to get cheated on. I did not word my reply very well, stuff in my head doesn't always get out of my fingers sounding the same. What i meant was they will run the risk of loosing their partner through inattention.
No more drinking and typing...
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I get what you're saying...but yeah, your reply reeked of "woman logic"

IE: If a man cheats, it's the man's fault. If a woman cheats, it's the man's fault (for "not being there for her emotionally").
 
Roasted said:
IE: If a man cheats, it's the man's fault. If a woman cheats, it's the man's fault (for "not being there for her emotionally").
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I don't believe that. I believe we all play a role in any problems as a couple. If a woman feels so neglected that she starts cheating, then she should have tried to talk to her partner and if he didnt listen then she should have taken further steps such as leave or whatever else depending on the individual situation. Ok yes he did wrong with not listening to her needs or her communitcating her needs but still they both could have done something.

Likewise if he cheats.
 
Cat13 said:
I don't believe that. I believe we all play a role in any problems as a couple. If a woman feels so neglected that she starts cheating, then she should have tried to talk to her partner and if he didnt listen then she should have taken further steps such as leave or whatever else depending on the individual situation. Ok yes he did wrong with not listening to her needs or her communitcating her needs but still they both could have done something.

Likewise if he cheats.
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The problem with that is that a lot of women out there can't do without a man no matter how they front. So they find a security blanket before taking that step.

Or they setup their back up plan so they can do it the next day and not feel guilty about cheating.... well in their warped minds.


Yea... tainted!!
 
rutakin said:
The problem with that is that a lot of women out there can't do without a man no matter how they front. So they find a security blanket before taking that step.

Or they setup their back up plan so they can do it the next day and not feel guilty about cheating.... well in their warped minds.


Yea... tainted!!
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Agreed thats a big problem and I've been in a relationship that I had a hard time leaving because there was a comfort there. But to me thats a problem on behalf of the woman. Your gonna keep bounding around until you learn to be happy with yourself.
 
Roasted said:
So back on topic.......Valentines Day..........that awkward moment when you're out with your chick on valentines day and your waitress happens to be a chick you posed for photos with shirtless. Yep.....good times.
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somehow I feel there is more to that story...
 
Roasted said:
So back on topic.......Valentines Day..........that awkward moment when you're out with your chick on valentines day and your waitress happens to be a chick you posed for photos with shirtless. Yep.....good times.
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Post the pics;)
 
Cat13 said:
Tehehe awe you did absorb my useless fact.
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The constant exposure to Whitney Houston's music all week has resulted in it 8-tracking in my head the last few days too. Whitney's music has only made me want to slit one of my wrists, though.
 
ATTS said:
Your stories are going downhill. Cmon now
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Hahaha, true.
I expected so much more. Thats like a girl giving a guy blue balls. I expect a nice juicy story only to be denied :(
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