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Parry sound and area.

I'm also in the early stages of thinking about a move from west Toronto. The house has too many stairs, too few garage spots and the city, too many rectums. We do have good immediate neighbours, priceless.

We were in Bracebridge a week or two ago, just for the drive. Muskoka Beach Road was nice. Nice lunch at the Main Street Diner. Some nice waterfalls etc.

However something my late brother did years ago comes to mind. He and his wife got a free weekend at Lagoon City and really enjoyed it. When they packed to leave they both had the same thought in mind. If they stayed longer what would they do that they hadn't already done.

Some people can do the same thing every day and never tire of it. Some need variety. Your call.

Muskoka is beautiful but IMO the people can be incredibly rude. Status, AKA pecking order, is based on how many generations ago your grandpappy was a lumberjack there. Money buys attention, not respect.

A friend has a cottage near Parry Sound (Horseshoe Lake) and is due for retirement. His wife is from PS and I asked if he'd move there. It was like I offered him a stale warm beer.

I like Orillia but it can have a really nice house next to a dump. Growth is phenomenal with condos coming up like mushrooms. Quaint downtown but stores open and close. Like every other town in the country drugs and homelessness are issues. It has big box stores, a hospital, nice parks and beaches, good harbours and decent riding roads. It's a Sportster tank of gas from Toronto but makes me think of a Brit bike, what's going to go wrong?

I think Barrie is a good city but too many people talk about it as if the whole place is on the wrong side of the tracks. It has a lot going for it. Retirees don't think about job markets but a healthy growing city economy keeps the place from rotting away. Point for Barrie.

Medical attention is a common problem everywhere in Canada as retirees flee the big cities. Ontario has a better overall record for wait times (PEI is the worst).

When you uproot several things change, especially in later years. Old friends might not want the drive to visit so you make all new friends.

Substance abuse and homeless issues are mobile and everywhere. Don't expect an improvement.

I figure I'm good for another five years where I am but I'm looking now because all it would take is one seemingly small medical incident to change everything. Without some planning a fire sale move could create a disaster.
 
My gf likes the idea of Parry Sound because her daughter and family live 15 min from it. But that's also a sticky point, because daughter doesn't want anything to do with me.
Bad vibes from me but I may be reading this wrong. Had the daughter tried to find a companion of her choosing for her mom or does she expect her mom to become a nun? Fifteen minutes away sounds too close for me and I'm not running away from my home to avoid a nasty guest.

Unless the situation is resolved it puts your gf in an awkward situation of choosing social events.

I don't get along with my S-I-L but my wife and I have worked out a fair procedure. Fortunately my silver spoon in mouth S-I-L lives far away.

FWIW I was glad to see my mother remarry. She finally got a chance to do some of her own stuff. I didn't get along well with my step father but he was good to my mom so I shook off the bad vibes.
 
I watched a lot of “blended” families work things out , some not so much .

You can live 15 mins from the kid , and you never have to see her . I wouldn’t want to run the risk of the GF inviting her over and you get to deal with that . But that’s for you to sort .

How do your kids / grandkids feel about you moving 3 hrs away ? For something that may suit your GF better …. Slippery slope


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Seems like alot of people want to head north these days. I reside in Alliston but since buying property in Mattawa the wife and I decided we will end up north. We ride our ATV's into town for shopping or whatever..and with VMUTS trails at our doorstep is awesome, even rode my RMX250 through town to get on trails which is very cool. I was born in Toronto and lived there...but it has become a sh@thole which is a terrible shame.
 
Don't know what the history of your GF's original hubby was but sounding like maybe the daughter has not come to terms with her Mom being with any other guy. It's not you, it's what you represent to her perhaps? I agree that it needs to be worked out if you're planning a long term relationship with this lady. Perhaps she should probe her daughter a little about what the issue is and report back to you.

On the moving issue; I completely understand. I was never happier than when we moved from Brampton to North St. Catharines 5 years ago. Even though Brampton or Kitchener are not Toronto, they are still both over crowded and a complete sh^t show navigating most of the time!
Once I landed here it was perfect. Kind of like Goldilocks; Not too big, not too small, just right! Everything I would ever need is within a 10 min or less drive/ride, including a fabulous hospital. Evening walks a block up the street for spectacular sunsets over Lake Ont are a bonus.
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Of course nowhere is perfect but where you should be is what serves your needs and doesn't raise your blood pressure every time you need to get out and about.

Good luck to you. Hope you find your paradise!
 
Maybe she thinks I'm trying to fill his shoes. She was 17 when cancer took him at home. Tough age. He was a sports coach for kids. Every kid on thier block had a bicycle. He made sure of it. He owned his own business and was a Supermodified race car driver.
As long as she doesn't outwardly hate me, I'm ok.
 
Filling that hole left by dad, pun intended, will never be easy . We went through it when my grandfather got a new friend , my mom was sour , when my FIL got a new gal , it was a mess .
My take for what it’s worth, pick your fights and live your life . Don’t work to hard at it , life is short, then you die.
If 80% of the time your away from them , enjoy that . You have the hand the Lord dealt you , don’t bluff .


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Filling that hole left by dad, pun intended, will never be easy . We went through it when my grandfather got a new friend , my mom was sour , when my FIL got a new gal , it was a mess .
My take for what it’s worth, pick your fights and live your life . Don’t work to hard at it , life is short, then you die.
If 80% of the time your away from them , enjoy that . You have the hand the Lord dealt you , don’t bluff .


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I could not agree more. Be friendly, respectful and distant and expect the same, if things improve that is a huge win, if they don't, move where you want and enjoy life. People are temporary.
 
Sick of the city. Thinking of moving. Pros? Cons?
There are a lot of differences between cities, so it’s hard to do pros and cons. There are pros to Toronto that are cons for smaller cities like Kitchener.

Where you live should be somewhere that has what you want.

For me, Timmins. I have some property there, one of my kids lives there, and it has the mix of things I enjoy.

House prices have gone bonkers, but still 1/3rd TO prices. I figure 9 mos there and 3 mos in the sun would be nice.
 

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