im glad i posted my little experience here, thank you every one. I really needed all this!
Definately not a good idea, imho, in this day and age to "confront" every driver. I think the better idea would be to try and get a license plate number and report the person & incident to the police. *Maybe* receiving a call from the police would "get the message across" more effectively (?)
Well, i started riding on Saturday august 13th.
Last night i was riding and a car cut me off with about 2 inches between my front wheel and his rear bumper! Scared the S**T out of me. I just slowed down to avoid hitting him, caught up to him at the next red light. Tried to confront the guy and he ignored me. So i just did the next best thing that came to my mind:
beeped my horn, he turned his head towards me and i gave him the :thebirdman:.
I was going about 5 over 60 (speed limit on that road).
thats not true...if every driver that cut off a bike got confronted maybe we'd get the message across
If you don't say something to a driver who cuts you off, he will just do it again to someone else, and they may not be so lucky.
While I am a new rider, I was a cyclist for many years, so nasty traffic confrontations are nothing new. It doesn't matter if you make them mad or they make up some crackpot theory about riders, or swear and howl. If you give them pause they will be less likely to do it again.
I mean really, what's the cager going to do, kill you? That you're having the conversation at all means he's already failed once.
Fixed it for ya... otherwise very true.Negative. People are inherently selfish (and stupid...). People tend to get very defensive, even when confronted in situations like this. Rather than show humility and admit wrongdoing, people will tend to lash out and accuse the accuser of being "aggressive" and "crazy". Trust me, it will NOT help the image of riders in this city.
I'm in my 6th season. The more I'm out there the more I realize that motorcycling is a very internal discipline, especially regarding urban traffic and communting. I get terrible road rage (see Road Rage Thread), and am at constant odds with myself to not make stupid choices in the heat of my anger that will leave me hurt or in jail. Luckilly this feeling of being "wronged" seems to fade with experience, and the understanding that inconsiderate and dangerous drivers are a part of everyday traffic. I havent reached that place yet, but I'm working on it.
+1 I think I've found a brother...
shouldve hulk smashed his side view mirror.