OP - I get your frustration, there are few feelings that sting worse than the feeling that you got ripped off, we've all been there at one point to one extent or another, but spending more time and energy on it will not make you feel any better at this point. I would try to have someone else contact the guy to and try to come to an agreement with him, and if that doesn't work write it off as the cost of a lesson learned.
SCC is not what you think it is, you will spend time and $$ and they will likely not give you the result you are looking for, in fact even if they rule that the guy has to refund you and cover your court costs good luck collecting from him if he is the small fly by night photographer you describe him to be.
not that its any consultation at this point, but most people here are right, no one looks at wedding pictures.
congrats!