Sorry if this has been mentioned already, I didn't feel like reading through dozens of posts.
Your primary residence should never be treated as a speculative investment. If you're not able to settle in a particular area for at least 5 years, then wait until you can, and save/invest like a mofo in the meantime. Then when you settle you can buy a property in that area and let time do its thing to protect your property value from market swings. Return on investment should only be a secondary concern when looking at home ownership, the real benefit is the eventual reduction of living expenses once your mortgage is paid off.
So with that in mind, your first question should be "where's a good place for us to set roots for at least the next 5 years?", and only then ask about an area's potential for increased valuation as part of a larger formula to find the most home you can afford.
Good advice. The term "Flipping" rolls off the tongue so easily just like "Buy low, sell high" on the stock market. There are no guarantees.
I knew someone who committed to a new house and took a long closing so his old one would appreciate another 40 grand and he'd have a smaller mortgage. Prices crashed and it went the other way but he was committed to the big price on the newer home.
It is said that Joseph Kennedy made his killing on the US Stock market by getting rid of his stock before the crash of 1929 because a shoe shine boy started giving him market tips.
So..........now we have real estate advice being handed out on a motorcycle forum. Time to sell.