Society has thoroughly emasculated and feminized men over the last 30 years. That's the real problem. We're not allowed to enjoy mechanical things anymore. Internal combustion is seen as a bad thing. Boys acting like, well, boys are considered sick and medicated now.
There are very few "gear heads" around anymore. Those who haven't succumbed to metrosexual cell-phone zombie-ism are obediently bowing to the Nanny State, even when doing so is to the detriment of their own safety. It's madness and we let it happen.
It has nothing to do with emasculation....you can do whatever the **** you want with consenting adults far from the madding crowd. It has more to do with consideration for others in a society.