Late to the party. But all these posts about no vacations is exactly why I’m pushing back on the wife about ownership. She wants to look at property in the city, dumps for 1 mil, etc. Now we have no kids and no plans to start any, so we don’t need the 3 bedroom+. However my main motivation for not entertaining these properties is to continue to buy what I want when i want it and go where I want when I want to.
Being house poor is not a goal I want to achieve.
Amen.
There are many paths to prosperity and happiness.
I think up till the very recent past, most people have only been aware of a very traditional template for life: go to school, get a job, get married, buy a house, pump out some kids, retire at 65... You just kind of followed the template because everyone else was doing it, and to deviate from the prescribed path would probably mean financial ruin and/or social ostracization.
But now, more than ever, there are more people either tweaking the blueprint or outright rejecting it. And - as it turns out - without adverse financial consequences either.
Maybe choose a child-free life and gain a sizeable disposable income?
Maybe rent instead of buy and gain geographic mobility and the freedom to channel your income into different investments other than just being forced to service a mortgage of an illiquid asset.
Maybe put a pause on work in the middle of your life while you have health, energy and motivation, instead of waiting for a far, uncertain future where working knees aren't a guarantee.
The traditional template seems to work for the vast majority of the population, but we're all cut from different pieces of cloth.
Some people might take a few steps down the road that everyone else is taking and suddenly realize, "This is not for me".
Some people might get all the way to the end before making that realization. Which is sad.
And others are actually thriving because they're zigging while everyone else is zagging.